kaka2za wrote:Impunity wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:newfarer wrote:Bigchick wrote:kaka2za wrote:Bigchick wrote:hardwood wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:You have not answered @bigchick's questions, why don't you marry the egg hawkers from the word go?
Many people do and some even marry their housegirls coz urembo ya mwanamke ni sura, not her job, profession or education. But for men urembo ya mwanaume ni pesa so you need a good profession, biachara etc that brings in good mulla to be attractive.
Show.me one who is NOT in midlife who has married a househelp/egghawker/Barmaid etc.
We have agreed midlifers lower their standards or should we say give up in life and settle for anything in a skirt?
And for the record am an advocate for respect to our men,am an advocate for faithfulness am an advocate for pampering your man.
No man desires to marry a barmaid or egg hawker. At the time of marriage,we look for educated ladies who can push us to the next level.
Sadly,women change after child birth and we soon become part of the furniture. It's at that point that the egg sellers become attractive.
Great,at last you have accepted that you lower the standards.
Going foward let us purpose to make our relationships better.Tell me when you think I have changed but also temper the same with reality.My gymnastics of when I was 27 with no kids and now that am 40 plus and 3 children later cannot be the same.
Ladies.Let us keep our mouths shut when we are being criticized and work towards the criticism.Let us wash their feet,do pedicure and romantic massages especially on Sunday afternoon.
Let's report here after 6 months
I think it will depend on where the relationship is now.if was heading fast South and he has tasted the eggseller your goose is cooked however much you try.any attempt to show him love will be interpreted as a trap to poison him.whenever a man falls out of love,it is near impossible to reverse. if he has not yet tasted the egghawker luck you you can stop the descent.
Now you see, when we want to revive the relationship, more plus extra excuses emerge. Let us just say men have roving eyes and will always create reasons to hanya and take the slightest opportunity to entertain MWK. Oooh mara bibi this, that etc yet they dont say how they have hurt the marriage, nonsense. @Bigchick dada these ones cant be helped. They will come back to us in their 60s when they are down and we are glowing beautiful both in body etc
A 60 year old nyanye glowing beautiful in body? Forgive us your nonsense please.
Nkt.
She is right. Women get stronger past menopause while men progressively become weaker around the same age.
Just take some time and observe elderly people during the Malipo ya pesa za wazee
Read gk's post.
It's not about ugly or not.
Women after menopause cannot give birth. Men can anytime after 8 years.
It's not a beauty, health or love contest.
Animals. We are animals. Must procreate. It's not gashungwas or ugly or otherwise. It's procreation.
Your base animal wants to push it's dna. That woman you married can't bear another. Then one with big hips comes along. Her problem is not your money. Her problem is survival of her womb.
When you understand that, you shall survive.
Hii mambo ingine of one wife, sijui jesus, sijui handsome, sijui ugly is just in your mind. Ask Tycho.
Thieves are not good people. Tumeelewana?