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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/8/2013 Posts: 4,068 Location: At Large.
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hardwood wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:You have not answered @bigchick's questions, why don't you marry the egg hawkers from the word go? Many people do and some even marry their housegirls coz urembo ya mwanamke ni sura, not her job, profession or education. But for men urembo ya mwanaume ni pesa so you need a good profession, biachara etc that brings in good mulla to be attractive. Show.me one who is NOT in midlife who has married a househelp/egghawker/Barmaid etc. We have agreed midlifers lower their standards or should we say give up in life and settle for anything in a skirt? And for the record am an advocate for respect to our men,am an advocate for faithfulness am an advocate for pampering your man. Love is beautiful and so are those who share it.With Love, Marriage is an amazing event in ones life time, the foundation of joy, happiness and success.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/3/2008 Posts: 4,058 Location: Gwitu
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Bigchick wrote:hardwood wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:You have not answered @bigchick's questions, why don't you marry the egg hawkers from the word go? Many people do and some even marry their housegirls coz urembo ya mwanamke ni sura, not her job, profession or education. But for men urembo ya mwanaume ni pesa so you need a good profession, biachara etc that brings in good mulla to be attractive. Show.me one who is NOT in midlife who has married a househelp/egghawker/Barmaid etc. We have agreed midlifers lower their standards or should we say give up in life and settle for anything in a skirt? And for the record am an advocate for respect to our men,am an advocate for faithfulness am an advocate for pampering your man. No man desires to marry a barmaid or egg hawker. At the time of marriage,we look for educated ladies who can push us to the next level. Sadly,women change after child birth and we soon become part of the furniture. It's at that point that the egg sellers become attractive. Truth forever on the scaffold
Wrong forever on the throne
(James Russell Rowell)
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/22/2009 Posts: 2,449 Location: Africa
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kaka2za wrote:Bigchick wrote:hardwood wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:You have not answered @bigchick's questions, why don't you marry the egg hawkers from the word go? Many people do and some even marry their housegirls coz urembo ya mwanamke ni sura, not her job, profession or education. But for men urembo ya mwanaume ni pesa so you need a good profession, biachara etc that brings in good mulla to be attractive. Show.me one who is NOT in midlife who has married a househelp/egghawker/Barmaid etc. We have agreed midlifers lower their standards or should we say give up in life and settle for anything in a skirt? And for the record am an advocate for respect to our men,am an advocate for faithfulness am an advocate for pampering your man. No man desires to marry a barmaid or egg hawker. At the time of marriage,we look for educated ladies who can push us to the next level. Sadly,women change after child birth and we soon become part of the furniture. It's at that point that the egg sellers become attractive. Hogwash. Many men simply want to have their cake and eat it too. Blaming the woman sijui childbirth sijui changes doesn't hold water. Many men cheat when the opportunity presents itself whether it's a student, egg hawker or whatever. However I do believe that there are some good men out there who know how to nurture relationships with their spouses. After all it's for better for worse
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/8/2013 Posts: 4,068 Location: At Large.
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kaka2za wrote:Bigchick wrote:hardwood wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:You have not answered @bigchick's questions, why don't you marry the egg hawkers from the word go? Many people do and some even marry their housegirls coz urembo ya mwanamke ni sura, not her job, profession or education. But for men urembo ya mwanaume ni pesa so you need a good profession, biachara etc that brings in good mulla to be attractive. Show.me one who is NOT in midlife who has married a househelp/egghawker/Barmaid etc. We have agreed midlifers lower their standards or should we say give up in life and settle for anything in a skirt? And for the record am an advocate for respect to our men,am an advocate for faithfulness am an advocate for pampering your man. No man desires to marry a barmaid or egg hawker. At the time of marriage,we look for educated ladies who can push us to the next level. Sadly,women change after child birth and we soon become part of the furniture. It's at that point that the egg sellers become attractive. Great,at last you have accepted that you lower the standards. Going foward let us purpose to make our relationships better.Tell me when you think I have changed but also temper the same with reality.My gymnastics of when I was 27 with no kids and now that am 40 plus and 3 children later cannot be the same. Ladies.Let us keep our mouths shut when we are being criticized and work towards the criticism.Let us wash their feet,do pedicure and romantic massages especially on Sunday afternoon. Let's report here after 6 months Love is beautiful and so are those who share it.With Love, Marriage is an amazing event in ones life time, the foundation of joy, happiness and success.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/19/2010 Posts: 3,505 Location: Uganda
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Bigchick wrote:kaka2za wrote:Bigchick wrote:hardwood wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:You have not answered @bigchick's questions, why don't you marry the egg hawkers from the word go? Many people do and some even marry their housegirls coz urembo ya mwanamke ni sura, not her job, profession or education. But for men urembo ya mwanaume ni pesa so you need a good profession, biachara etc that brings in good mulla to be attractive. Show.me one who is NOT in midlife who has married a househelp/egghawker/Barmaid etc. We have agreed midlifers lower their standards or should we say give up in life and settle for anything in a skirt? And for the record am an advocate for respect to our men,am an advocate for faithfulness am an advocate for pampering your man. No man desires to marry a barmaid or egg hawker. At the time of marriage,we look for educated ladies who can push us to the next level. Sadly,women change after child birth and we soon become part of the furniture. It's at that point that the egg sellers become attractive. Great,at last you have accepted that you lower the standards. Going foward let us purpose to make our relationships better.Tell me when you think I have changed but also temper the same with reality.My gymnastics of when I was 27 with no kids and now that am 40 plus and 3 children later cannot be the same. Ladies.Let us keep our mouths shut when we are being criticized and work towards the criticism.Let us wash their feet,do pedicure and romantic massages especially on Sunday afternoon. Let's report here after 6 months I think it will depend on where the relationship is now.if was heading fast South and he has tasted the eggseller your goose is cooked however much you try.any attempt to show him love will be interpreted as a trap to poison him.whenever a man falls out of love,it is near impossible to reverse. if he has not yet tasted the egghawker luck you you can stop the descent. punda amecheka
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/26/2012 Posts: 15,980
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But this egg hawker.....you are living in a 60K house driving a Merc but your mother lives with your child in a shak with no floor. How selfish can one be really? "There are only two emotions in the market, hope & fear. The problem is you hope when you should fear & fear when you should hope: - Jesse Livermore
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/28/2015 Posts: 9,562 Location: Rodi Kopany, Homa Bay
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murchr wrote:But this egg hawker.....you are living in a 60K house driving a Merc but your mother lives with your child in a shak with no floor. How selfish can one be really? That is what happens when your income isn't guaranteed. You can't undertake major projects like building your mum a brand new house or take your kid to Nova.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/26/2012 Posts: 15,980
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hardwood wrote:murchr wrote:But this egg hawker.....you are living in a 60K house driving a Merc but your mother lives with your child in a shak with no floor. How selfish can one be really? That is what happens when your income isn't guaranteed. You can't undertake major projects like building your mum a brand new house or take your kid to Nova. How about living with your kid or flooring your mother's house? "There are only two emotions in the market, hope & fear. The problem is you hope when you should fear & fear when you should hope: - Jesse Livermore
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/8/2013 Posts: 4,068 Location: At Large.
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murchr wrote:hardwood wrote:murchr wrote:But this egg hawker.....you are living in a 60K house driving a Merc but your mother lives with your child in a shak with no floor. How selfish can one be really? That is what happens when your income isn't guaranteed. You can't undertake major projects like building your mum a brand new house or take your kid to Nova. How about living with your kid or flooring your mother's house? It boils down to where we mentioned earlier. Love is beautiful and so are those who share it.With Love, Marriage is an amazing event in ones life time, the foundation of joy, happiness and success.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/7/2012 Posts: 11,936
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newfarer wrote:Bigchick wrote:kaka2za wrote:Bigchick wrote:hardwood wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:You have not answered @bigchick's questions, why don't you marry the egg hawkers from the word go? Many people do and some even marry their housegirls coz urembo ya mwanamke ni sura, not her job, profession or education. But for men urembo ya mwanaume ni pesa so you need a good profession, biachara etc that brings in good mulla to be attractive. Show.me one who is NOT in midlife who has married a househelp/egghawker/Barmaid etc. We have agreed midlifers lower their standards or should we say give up in life and settle for anything in a skirt? And for the record am an advocate for respect to our men,am an advocate for faithfulness am an advocate for pampering your man. No man desires to marry a barmaid or egg hawker. At the time of marriage,we look for educated ladies who can push us to the next level. Sadly,women change after child birth and we soon become part of the furniture. It's at that point that the egg sellers become attractive. Great,at last you have accepted that you lower the standards. Going foward let us purpose to make our relationships better.Tell me when you think I have changed but also temper the same with reality.My gymnastics of when I was 27 with no kids and now that am 40 plus and 3 children later cannot be the same. Ladies.Let us keep our mouths shut when we are being criticized and work towards the criticism.Let us wash their feet,do pedicure and romantic massages especially on Sunday afternoon. Let's report here after 6 months I think it will depend on where the relationship is now.if was heading fast South and he has tasted the eggseller your goose is cooked however much you try.any attempt to show him love will be interpreted as a trap to poison him.whenever a man falls out of love,it is near impossible to reverse. if he has not yet tasted the egghawker luck you you can stop the descent. Now you see, when we want to revive the relationship, more plus extra excuses emerge. Let us just say men have roving eyes and will always create reasons to hanya and take the slightest opportunity to entertain MWK. Oooh mara bibi this, that etc yet they dont say how they have hurt the marriage, nonsense. @Bigchick dada these ones cant be helped. They will come back to us in their 60s when they are down and we are glowing beautiful both in body etc In the business world, everyone is paid in two coins - cash and experience. Take the experience first; the cash will come later - H Geneen
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