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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2008 Posts: 6,275 Location: Kenya
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newfarer wrote:I'm looking for the day when marrying more than one wife will be an acceptable norm. It used to be the norm in the old testament. wazee wa zamani waliona mbali.when we get there single motherhood will be minimized and we shall have a stable society. I said here that if you look at the communities where marrying more than one wife is allowed, single mother pandemic is not there... the Maasai etc. Even among us Muslims, there are very, very few single mothers, those you see fell into the feminist band wagon and I can assure you they are fornicating against their faith. However, the men have also become such cowards. They fear marrying more than one wife!
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/26/2011 Posts: 759
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There is marriage then there is loving marriage. Lot's of people are in miserable marriages, marry more than one wife is not going to solve anything.
In my opinion, divorce should be celebrated and people need to learn to not to rely on marriage and partnerships to live. I am happily married but if my wife is no longer available for me, I will not get married again. Marriage is really not necessary.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/7/2012 Posts: 11,935
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Rollout wrote:There is marriage then there is loving marriage. Lot's of people are in miserable marriages, marry more than one wife is not going to solve anything.
In my opinion, divorce should be celebrated and people need to learn to not to rely on marriage and partnerships to live. I am happily married but if my wife is no longer available for me, I will not get married again. Marriage is really not necessary. Very true!!!! In the business world, everyone is paid in two coins - cash and experience. Take the experience first; the cash will come later - H Geneen
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2009 Posts: 26,331 Location: Masada
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Rollout wrote:There is marriage then there is loving marriage. Lot's of people are in miserable marriages, marry more than one wife is not going to solve anything.
In my opinion, divorce should be celebrated and people need to learn to not to rely on marriage and partnerships to live. I am happily married but if my wife is no longer available for me, I will not get married again. Marriage is really not necessary.  Portfolio: Sold
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Rank: Member Joined: 5/15/2019 Posts: 687 Location: planet earth
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Feminism that leads to singo mama syndrome always produces very terrible results: gayism, attention seeking, "playerism" all of which lead to more singo mama syndrome. It is a vicious cycle. Kenyan celebs who are products of singo mama https://mpasho.co.ke/fro...ought-up-by-single-moms/In the final analysis, it all boils down to sheer plain old hard work and dogged persistence. Nothing more, nothing less!!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2008 Posts: 6,275 Location: Kenya
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amorphous wrote:Feminism that leads to singo mama syndrome always produces very terrible results: gayism, attention seeking, "playerism" all of which lead to more singo mama syndrome. It is a vicious cycle. Kenyan celebs who are products of singo mama https://mpasho.co.ke/fro...ught-up-by-single-moms/
And the statistics carried out by the U.S Department of Health and Census prove that 85% of children with behaviour disorders come from single mother households, which it says is 20 times national average! This shows that a child needs both FATHER and MOTHER living in the house! Because when you don't have both parents, the chances of screwing in life is high! NOTE: Those who want to argue, yes we know there are single dads, there are busy parents, there are single mums who have done good job. In life, there always exceptions to the rule. So if there are single mums where they have raised great kids, and they have turned out perfectly normal, good for them, the statistics does not apply to them. But just because they are one of the rare exceptions out there, it does not disqualify the overwhelming majority of single mums out there producing kidsLink
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/19/2010 Posts: 3,505 Location: Uganda
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AlphDoti wrote:amorphous wrote:Feminism that leads to singo mama syndrome always produces very terrible results: gayism, attention seeking, "playerism" all of which lead to more singo mama syndrome. It is a vicious cycle. Kenyan celebs who are products of singo mama https://mpasho.co.ke/fro...ught-up-by-single-moms/
And the statistics carried out by the U.S Department of Health and Census prove that 85% of children with behaviour disorders come from single mother households, which it says is 20 times national average! This shows that a child needs both FATHER and MOTHER living in the house! Because when you don't have both parents, the chances of screwing in life is high! NOTE: Those who want to argue, yes we know there are single dads, there are busy parents, there are single mums who have done good job. In life, there always exceptions to the rule. So if there are single mums where they have raised great kids, and they have turned out perfectly normal, good for them, the statistics does not apply to them. But just because they are one of the rare exceptions out there, it does not disqualify the overwhelming majority of single mums out there producing kidsLink How does a father and mothers live in the same house in a polygamous setting And is it possible to marry a second wife without cheating on the first? how many modern women can give consent to a man to marry a second wife btw punda amecheka
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2008 Posts: 6,275 Location: Kenya
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newfarer wrote:AlphDoti wrote:amorphous wrote:Feminism that leads to singo mama syndrome always produces very terrible results: gayism, attention seeking, "playerism" all of which lead to more singo mama syndrome. It is a vicious cycle. Kenyan celebs who are products of singo mama https://mpasho.co.ke/fro...ught-up-by-single-moms/
And the statistics carried out by the U.S Department of Health and Census prove that 85% of children with behaviour disorders come from single mother households, which it says is 20 times national average! This shows that a child needs both FATHER and MOTHER living in the house! Because when you don't have both parents, the chances of screwing in life is high! NOTE: Those who want to argue, yes we know there are single dads, there are busy parents, there are single mums who have done good job. In life, there always exceptions to the rule. So if there are single mums where they have raised great kids, and they have turned out perfectly normal, good for them, the statistics does not apply to them. But just because they are one of the rare exceptions out there, it does not disqualify the overwhelming majority of single mums out there producing kidsLink How does a father and mothers live in the same house in a polygamous setting And is it possible to marry a second wife without cheating on the first? how many modern women can give consent to a man to marry a second wife btw @newfarer, below are answers to your questions: Wives do not have to live in same house with husband unless they (women) consent to it. Husband cannot force them. He has to have two separate houses for the women. How is marrying a second wife legally cheating? The law allows marrying more than wife in some situations. There is no cheating issue if marriage is done according to the law. As regarding consent, no woman would give consent due to their jealousy which is part of their nature and we can't blame them. Most men would prefer not to inform the first or they inform her after he has married the second since they know they can’t get a consent from the first. Bottom-line, the men have to be just while dealing with woman. Everything when done with respect and wisdom will result in peace, tranquility and patience to each other. There is not need to hide from first wife. AS man, just do due diligence and move on with life and be fair and just in all your executions.
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Rank: Member Joined: 1/22/2015 Posts: 682
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Let's not forget the abject poverty that most single mums live in, which pushes so many of them to prostitution! amorphous wrote:Feminism that leads to singo mama syndrome always produces very terrible results: gayism, attention seeking, "playerism" all of which lead to more singo mama syndrome. It is a vicious cycle. Kenyan celebs who are products of singo mama https://mpasho.co.ke/fro...ught-up-by-single-moms/
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 1/3/2014 Posts: 1,063
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So men walk around lying and impregnating women and refuse to take responsibility and women are to blame?  Consistency is better than intensity
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