@GG
Dont forget that when your child is getting married,he should marry someone they are compatible with,not you and the boy/girls father and mother... Whose happiness are you seeking? Yours or your childs? You got your happiness by marrying your wife,let him have his.
Reminds me of the intermarriage issues we have in kenya..... Parents become so obsessed with the tribe and forget the happiness of their children... Now,when the tribe is not a barrier,we take the next on line - class..... Really?? We need to go with the times. let your child marry who they have in their heart... you can ask them to take a gal of their class but they will never be happy. As long as the girl/boy is decent,respectiful,comes from family with similar or better values (not money and status),i dont see what the beef is.
so Bunyi & Wangeci,this is your life,make your decisions based on what you believe is good for the two of you. And good luck with your lives. Happy life.
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