aemathenge

Apologies accepted. I am a woman but i am not the "wife". The "wife is a good friend of mine.

Atiriri, advice is the cheapest service/comodity that you can get since everybody has an opinion. Each case is unique and thus cannot be replicated in every situation.

As such dont ask men why they loose interest in their wives coz each has a story to tell. You as the "best friend" of the agrieved party have also to a large extent contributed to their current problem. Its like you have proof that indeed the husband is cheating and now you are consoling her.'acting good to her'

Personally i wouldnt be confortable with my wife if she has some noosy friend(s) who acts as saviors of other marriages when they are either not married or have marriage problems themselves. I hope you dont fall in that category.

As far as i know, aaah , she is committed to her marriage. Anapenda bwanake sana.

Wendz
Si many men here confessed about how easily tents are put up even by strangers in town. On the other hand a "lady" has to be sweet talked for 2 hours and rubbed for like 15 minutes before machine iamuke.

This leads me to the conclusion sex for a woman is more for intimacy (making love) so she can vumilia unlike for a man which is dealing with an urge na kuvumilia ni ngumu.

They need to solve their problem together it might be most of the times wako mbali and no time to talk and cultivate their relationship...Both might be suspecting one another of cheating.Marriage has many challenges and only the wife and husband can overcome them by being wise and expressing themself to one another freely.......The word is communication