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mukiha
#11 Posted : Monday, May 18, 2009 10:37:00 AM
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Consider this historical snippet:

Why did slavery end? It was not because the euro-americans got a bout of human consciousness and realised that the Africans were also human beings! It was a simple business decision.

They slave owners realised that you can get greater out-put if you treat the slaves better...give them more food,better clothes,some amount of freedom to relax and have a good time with friends etc....eventually,the nations realised that for their economies to grow,they had to produce more,thus they decreed NO SLAVERY

Of course there was also the effect of industrialisation... one machine could do in one day what 10 slaves could do in one week...without the headache!!

Moral of the story: treat people well and they become more productive...even house-maids.

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condi
#12 Posted : Monday, May 18, 2009 10:39:00 AM
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@achie

made my afternoon.
The General
#13 Posted : Monday, May 18, 2009 10:40:00 AM
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@ Mukiha,spot on

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Jalofg
#14 Posted : Monday, May 18, 2009 10:52:00 AM
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1. Pay her well otherwise she won't care whether she loses the job or not.

2. Allow for some level of freedom.

3. Treat her like your own daughter in terms of parental love. Remember some of them grow up in harsh conditions. Others come from a very poor background such that they look forward to a chance to enjoy bread and blue band.

By the way,would you allow your own sister to do that kind of job?

If your answer is NO,then just know the background they come from.


Jalofg
mukiha
#15 Posted : Monday, May 18, 2009 11:42:00 AM
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@Kusadikika

'If the house help is over 18 I don't think....'

Does anyone employ under-18s?

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Shak
#16 Posted : Monday, May 18, 2009 12:08:00 PM
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Thanks for all the advice guys. I do treat her well,i just need to learn to be more firm with her. My worries started when i noticed she was getting many calls on the house phone from different guys and once saw her walking with a dude not far from my house though it was her off day. Question is,how much freedom of association should she be given? She just turned 18 by the way. She hasn't brought a jamaa to my house... yet.

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mukiha
#17 Posted : Monday, May 18, 2009 12:39:00 PM
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Is it affecting her work?

If yes; deal with the work issue alone

If not,why are you bothered?

Or do you just want to 'feel in control'?

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Nothing is real unless it can be named; nothing has value unless it can be sold; money is worthless unless you spend it.
Jalofg
#18 Posted : Monday, May 18, 2009 12:55:00 PM
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@ Shak

'She hasn't brought a jamaa to my house... yet'.

You cant be 100% sure.

One day I went home unusually early bcoz i was travelling. I met our househelp a distance from home wearing my own T-shirt. My wife was mad and she had to leave the following morning.


I think its not more on the freedom you give but her character.




Jalofg
Shak
#19 Posted : Monday, May 18, 2009 1:05:00 PM
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@ mukiha,though it is not affecting her work i do think that issues like security and respect matter. The girl has only worked 3 months and that level of association must be of concern. Who knows the motives of some of these men? They could be thieves. I like the point Wendz gave that all associations within the neighbourhood are unacceptable else she could be putting myself and my family at risk

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Jacy26
#20 Posted : Monday, May 18, 2009 1:25:00 PM
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The gals who are still in their teenage are the worst (18-20). I had one who was about 19 and if it were not for my neighbours,I wouldn't have known what she does when I am away. During the day,she could bring estate idlers (men)into my house. Waaah,the day I learnt that,she left the following morning. I had no time to bargain about it. Get one who is mature and responsible.

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