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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/7/2012 Posts: 11,908
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kaka2za wrote:Queen wrote:You get picked up by the roadside by a total stranger, you agree to accompany him to a pub where you drink and eat to your fill. Eventually you accompany the stranger to his house where you get hit, complete with a morning glory. You later start shouting rape at the top of your voice. Please give us a break. Nothing adds up here. At what point did she withdraw the consent? Consent can be withdrawn even hata kama umejaribu and the woman notices it is not working or big. It is the woman to decide.  In the business world, everyone is paid in two coins - cash and experience. Take the experience first; the cash will come later - H Geneen
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 11/19/2010 Posts: 1,308 Location: nairobi metropolitan
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sparkly wrote:That rape. Consent obtained by force, threats of force or deception is no consent.
Consent can also be withdrawn at any time before or during the act. We have not had the man's side of the story. We cannot thus judge.. Boy child anamalizwa hapa  Democracy does not belong to the dead
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 11/19/2010 Posts: 1,308 Location: nairobi metropolitan
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Angelica _ann wrote:Any non consensual sex, even in marriage is rape. So this was rape ab-nitio. Add HIV and things gets murky. Candidate for castration ili iwe funzo. @Angelica_ann, we all agree rape is anything done that is no_consensual. What I disagree is a scenario where a woman has consensual sex( likely in this case) but then when their objectives are not met they turn around and blackmail a man. They only give rapists a good name, and they are are a shame to the victims of rape who understand the real meaning of rape as violence. Democracy does not belong to the dead
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/18/2011 Posts: 12,069 Location: Kianjokoma
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Angelica _ann wrote:Any non consensual sex, even in marriage is rape. So this was rape ab-nitio. Add HIV and things gets murky. Candidate for castration ili iwe funzo. Yes. Non consensual is rape. In this case, the question that begs is whether there was consent. It could be that she even pleaded with him for other rounds It's dangerous for men who copulate with their women with consent then get framed for rape when they refuse to be extorted. These things are happening. We have men jailed even for defiling minors when it was all a case of grudges being settled. The HIV angle in this case paints the accused as a despicable human. Assuming he knew he was a carrier that is.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/21/2008 Posts: 2,490
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Angelica _ann wrote:Any non consensual sex, even in marriage is rape. So this was rape ab-nitio. Add HIV and things gets murky. Candidate for castration ili iwe funzo. So if your wife does not give you who is she giving it to and where will you get it from??  The man who marries a beautiful woman, and the farmer who grows corn by the roadside have the same problem
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/21/2008 Posts: 2,490
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When I was a bachelor, any lady who come to my house meant consent. (Disclaimer - those were many years ago) Why would a lady visit a guys house especially at night?? The man who marries a beautiful woman, and the farmer who grows corn by the roadside have the same problem
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Rank: Member Joined: 11/21/2018 Posts: 564 Location: Britain
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Lolest! wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:Any non consensual sex, even in marriage is rape. So this was rape ab-nitio. Add HIV and things gets murky. Candidate for castration ili iwe funzo. Yes. Non consensual is rape. In this case, the question that begs is whether there was consent. It could be that she even pleaded with him for other rounds It's dangerous for men who copulate with their women with consent then get framed for rape when they refuse to be extorted. These things are happening. We have men jailed even for defiling minors when it was all a case of grudges being settled. The HIV angle in this case paints the accused as a despicable human. Assuming he knew he was a carrier that is. How I wish she admitted that the sex was consensual but she is now accusing the guy of deliberately infecting her with HIV. If that were the case, she would attract alot of sympathy.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 9/23/2009 Posts: 8,083 Location: Enk are Nyirobi
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Queen wrote:Lolest! wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:Any non consensual sex, even in marriage is rape. So this was rape ab-nitio. Add HIV and things gets murky. Candidate for castration ili iwe funzo. Yes. Non consensual is rape. In this case, the question that begs is whether there was consent. It could be that she even pleaded with him for other rounds It's dangerous for men who copulate with their women with consent then get framed for rape when they refuse to be extorted. These things are happening. We have men jailed even for defiling minors when it was all a case of grudges being settled. The HIV angle in this case paints the accused as a despicable human. Assuming he knew he was a carrier that is. How I wish she admitted that the sex was consensual but she is now accusing the guy of deliberately infecting her with HIV. If that were the case, she would attract alot of sympathy. Consensual sex becomes rape if a person fails to disclose that he/she is suffering from HIV or other life threatening STD (Section 43(3)(c)) of the Sexual Offenses Act Quote:
43(3) False pretences or fraudulent means, referred to in subsection
(1)(b), include circumstances where a person -
(a)...
(b)...
(c) intentionally fails to disclose to the person in respect of
whom an act is being committed, that he or she is infected
by HIV or any other life-threatening sexually transmissible
disease.
Life is short. Live passionately.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2009 Posts: 26,328 Location: Masada
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Nonsense! Portfolio: Sold
You know you've made it when you get a parking space for your yatcht.
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Rank: Member Joined: 11/21/2018 Posts: 564 Location: Britain
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sparkly wrote:Queen wrote:Lolest! wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:Any non consensual sex, even in marriage is rape. So this was rape ab-nitio. Add HIV and things gets murky. Candidate for castration ili iwe funzo. Yes. Non consensual is rape. In this case, the question that begs is whether there was consent. It could be that she even pleaded with him for other rounds It's dangerous for men who copulate with their women with consent then get framed for rape when they refuse to be extorted. These things are happening. We have men jailed even for defiling minors when it was all a case of grudges being settled. The HIV angle in this case paints the accused as a despicable human. Assuming he knew he was a carrier that is. How I wish she admitted that the sex was consensual but she is now accusing the guy of deliberately infecting her with HIV. If that were the case, she would attract alot of sympathy. Consensual sex becomes rape if a person fails to disclose that he/she is suffering from HIV or other life threatening STD (Section 43(3)(c)) of the Sexual Offenses Act Quote:
43(3) False pretences or fraudulent means, referred to in subsection
(1)(b), include circumstances where a person -
(a)...
(b)...
(c) intentionally fails to disclose to the person in respect of
whom an act is being committed, that he or she is infected
by HIV or any other life-threatening sexually transmissible
disease.
If that is the case then, maybe, just maybe rape is now beginning to make sense.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 9/23/2009 Posts: 8,083 Location: Enk are Nyirobi
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Continue adopting barmaids. Utajua hujui  Life is short. Live passionately.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/3/2008 Posts: 4,057 Location: Gwitu
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Nimezeeka but yet to figure out how one can pick a total stranger on the road and take her home. Truth forever on the scaffold
Wrong forever on the throne
(James Russell Rowell)
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Rank: Elder Joined: 9/23/2009 Posts: 8,083 Location: Enk are Nyirobi
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kaka2za wrote:Nimezeeka but yet to figure out how one can pick a total stranger on the road and take her home. He was too thirsty for P* Life is short. Live passionately.
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