lol.

I hope so. I have never knocked up any girl so I don't know. And besides, I don't think there is any shame if someone is not able to father kids or shoot blanks as you describe it. It doesn't mean that he is less of a man than other men as you are trying to insinuate, it just means that he has an unfortunate (or fortunate) medical condition which is nothing to be ashamed of.

It's not the 1950's anymore when men were revered as the hegoat (pun intended) of the village because they could impregnate 11 wives and sire 49 kids to prove how manly they were. It's a civilized generation Now and not being able to have kids is not taboo anymore. Lol.

And why would the woman have to be rich by the way? You lost me there kidogo.

Finally somebody sort of agrees with me on something for the first time since I joined wazua. Lol.

You can excuse the uneducated people for being ignorant about family planning, but we are talking about highly educated urban dwellers who can't seem to grasp the concept. It's very bizarre.

@Humbargler

Your argument has a place in today's society but not as you put it.

Yes, some people may not want children for many reasons, mostly due to career demands, lack of compatible partners or even the experience during upbringing. Very few however opt to not have children because of economic status, trust me, children are never an economic burden to any responsible parent.

You sound like you are keeping a circle of very irresponsible company. Anyone asking you for soft loan (as a friend) is financially irresponsible advise them to re-prioritize their expenditure patterns. I have many friends and none if any ever ask me for soft loans, I also don't ask them.

I don't think coffee at Java or a steak is the right measure for a great life in the long run either, like every material thing, they lose meaning the moment you can afford them.

Kids are not a must, but when you get them, they are the greatest thing in the world, because they change everyday and are full of surprises, unlike your Java coffee and juicy steak.

My friend has pigeon holed you and your kind and moved on to matters of national importance like the management of the Machizi Express.

However, I do have a few queries of my own, and the rich lady can afford to bring up a child while you posit you can’t.

You can afford to pay for exotic tourism but you cannot afford to bring up a child.

You do not know whether you can father a child, you have never fathered one. Which means you have never tried.

What was that major fall out you had with your mother and father that you do not wish to “birth” them?

You look down with disdain on people who have children, and lend out thousands to them, yet you cannot afford to bring up your own.

Your friends, peers, and colleagues prefer raising children. Why then are they your friends, peers and colleagues? Shouldn’t you be fraternizing with your kind? And what kind would that be?

You do not mention the gender of your “fiancee” are you gay?