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Rank: Member Joined: 4/20/2012 Posts: 888
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jaggernaut wrote:radio wrote:No wonder the guy has been so combative. Kumbe it's the domes at home! True. There are rumours that someone has been "ploughing his field" huko nyumbani while he is away with baba busy okoaring kenya, hence his drastic action against the wife. 
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 5/11/2010 Posts: 918
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What, pray tell, causes two people who start out in love come to this level of resentment? Ni nini hufanyikia watu wakioana? Sure there are marriages out there that hold up decently, but there doesn't seem to be that many examples. Or maybe it's just me. I think something is seriously wrong with the entire sociocultural production line, especially as relates to marriages. And I don't think it is a new problem. I do not believe that couples were happier in 1914 than they are in 2014, on average. There just wasn't as much "speaking out" going on then. And marriages are the foundation of the family, and the family the foundation society. So this is a big deal. But maybe even that logic is warped. It's not even clear what a family is anymore. Monogamy. Polygamy. Polyandry. Homosexual relationships. They all seem to have equal potential for misery. And people change. Maybe they don't. Maybe they just marry the wrong people. What's the deal with getting committed to a single individual for the majority of one's life anyway - complete with religious and state enforcement? To raise children? It sure doesn't seem to be for happiness because people aren't encouraged to ship out if the union hits the rocks. Isn't there a chance that this very logic is fundamentally flawed? You would think I know! Learn first to treat your time as you would your money, then treat your money as you do your time.
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/20/2012 Posts: 888
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Lately he has been quiet...., I thought he was busy collecting signatures.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 4/1/2009 Posts: 1,884
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jaggernaut wrote:Impunity wrote:I like her hair very much. Looks fresh and healthy.
She doesn't look like she starves.
And to imagine she leaves alone in that house, oh my!
The rich also cry. The irony of life. You find so many unhappy people in the leafy suburbs, and yet there are very many happy people of ordinary means, even in slums like kibera. Sometimes it's more money, more problems... now if only these people were not wasting their money in doing things to please their wives like picking them up in limos etc and instead investing in ka-plotis, these unhappiness won't be...oh wait....
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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seppuku wrote:What, pray tell, causes two people who start out in love come to this level of resentment? Ni nini hufanyikia watu wakioana?
Sure there are marriages out there that hold up decently, but there doesn't seem to be that many examples. Or maybe it's just me.
I think something is seriously wrong with the entire sociocultural production line, especially as relates to marriages. And I don't think it is a new problem. I do not believe that couples were happier in 1914 than they are in 2014, on average. There just wasn't as much "speaking out" going on then.
And marriages are the foundation of the family, and the family the foundation society. So this is a big deal.
But maybe even that logic is warped. It's not even clear what a family is anymore. Monogamy. Polygamy. Polyandry. Homosexual relationships. They all seem to have equal potential for misery.
And people change. Maybe they don't. Maybe they just marry the wrong people. What's the deal with getting committed to a single individual for the majority of one's life anyway - complete with religious and state enforcement? To raise children? It sure doesn't seem to be for happiness because people aren't encouraged to ship out if the union hits the rocks. Isn't there a chance that this very logic is fundamentally flawed?
You would think I know! All marital problems revolve around sex. According to Research done in India(Ubaba 2014) and general experience has proven that men's sexually appetite is usually very high in 20'sand early 30's and declines as they hit 40 while for women late 30's and 40-50''s is the peak for their sexually appetite;But since husbands are unable to cater for their wives sexual needs during these period, they then resort to dating young girls(with the hope that their sex appetite will be back) who in turn are only interested in the man because of his chums while the wife will usually find a kachabalilet(probably a houseboy due to unavailability of the husband this is also the period when marriage undergoes turmoil). The kachabalilet will properly screw the wife like a pencil sharpener and this when the women start being stubborn to their husbands(I really do not why sexually starved women and properly screwed women all exhibit same type of arrogance and stubbornness) If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 8/4/2008 Posts: 2,849 Location: Rupi
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2009 Posts: 26,330 Location: Masada
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mkenyan wrote:jaggernaut wrote:Impunity wrote:I like her hair very much. Looks fresh and healthy.
She doesn't look like she starves.
And to imagine she leaves alone in that house, oh my!
The rich also cry. The irony of life. You find so many unhappy people in the leafy suburbs, and yet there are very many happy people of ordinary means, even in slums like kibera. Sometimes it's more money, more problems... now if only these people were not wasting their money in doing things to please their wives like picking them up in limos etc and instead investing in ka-plotis, these unhappiness won't be...oh wait.... Proti here, proti pale, proti kila mahali....and more prots leads more money n more troubles in life. Portfolio: Sold
You know you've made it when you get a parking space for your yatcht.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/7/2012 Posts: 11,925
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Team proti aka invest ......... see the outcome! In the business world, everyone is paid in two coins - cash and experience. Take the experience first; the cash will come later - H Geneen
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Rank: Member Joined: 2/21/2009 Posts: 573
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/20/2012 Posts: 888
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Very sad....I does not it reflects us who live in leafy suburbs or us in the slums.
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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MKWASI wrote:Very sad....I does not it reflects us who live in leafy suburbs or us in the slums.
Are you eating chips without a black polythene wrapper? If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/17/2013 Posts: 4,693 Location: Earth
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NTV- Oi! Muthama! Shame Shame Shame!  Do they have kids? At his age? smh!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/10/2008 Posts: 9,131 Location: Kanjo
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Impunity wrote:mkenyan wrote:jaggernaut wrote:Impunity wrote:I like her hair very much. Looks fresh and healthy.
She doesn't look like she starves.
And to imagine she leaves alone in that house, oh my!
The rich also cry. The irony of life. You find so many unhappy people in the leafy suburbs, and yet there are very many happy people of ordinary means, even in slums like kibera. Sometimes it's more money, more problems... now if only these people were not wasting their money in doing things to please their wives like picking them up in limos etc and instead investing in ka-plotis, these unhappiness won't be...oh wait.... Proti here, proti pale, proti kila mahali....and more prots leads more money n more troubles in life. what about debt free-ness?  i.am.back!!!!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/10/2008 Posts: 9,131 Location: Kanjo
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Euge wrote:http://www.the-star.co.ke/news/article-194106/muthamas-wife-talks-about-marital-issues-made-her-involve-fida
30 roomed house! Yeah I am also doubting this. kumbe all this is due to referendum? Quote:She said her marriage took a different turn after the referendum campaigns in which she took a stance different from her husbands i.am.back!!!!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2009 Posts: 26,330 Location: Masada
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harrydre wrote:Impunity wrote:mkenyan wrote:jaggernaut wrote:Impunity wrote:I like her hair very much. Looks fresh and healthy.
She doesn't look like she starves.
And to imagine she leaves alone in that house, oh my!
The rich also cry. The irony of life. You find so many unhappy people in the leafy suburbs, and yet there are very many happy people of ordinary means, even in slums like kibera. Sometimes it's more money, more problems... now if only these people were not wasting their money in doing things to please their wives like picking them up in limos etc and instead investing in ka-plotis, these unhappiness won't be...oh wait.... Proti here, proti pale, proti kila mahali....and more prots leads more money n more troubles in life. what about debt free-ness? Hii iwezi kukupeleka pabaya. Portfolio: Sold
You know you've made it when you get a parking space for your yatcht.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 5/21/2013 Posts: 2,841 Location: Here
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seppuku wrote:What, pray tell, causes two people who start out in love come to this level of resentment? Ni nini hufanyikia watu wakioana?
Sure there are marriages out there that hold up decently, but there doesn't seem to be that many examples. Or maybe it's just me.
I think something is seriously wrong with the entire sociocultural production line, especially as relates to marriages. And I don't think it is a new problem. I do not believe that couples were happier in 1914 than they are in 2014, on average. There just wasn't as much "speaking out" going on then.
And marriages are the foundation of the family, and the family the foundation society. So this is a big deal.
But maybe even that logic is warped. It's not even clear what a family is anymore. Monogamy. Polygamy. Polyandry. Homosexual relationships. They all seem to have equal potential for misery.
And people change. Maybe they don't. Maybe they just marry the wrong people. What's the deal with getting committed to a single individual for the majority of one's life anyway - complete with religious and state enforcement? To raise children? It sure doesn't seem to be for happiness because people aren't encouraged to ship out if the union hits the rocks. Isn't there a chance that this very logic is fundamentally flawed?
You would think I know! Reminds me of the quote, don't quite remember by who: "Your best friend is also your worst enemy." Life is like playing a violin solo in public and learning the instrument as one goes on.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 5/21/2013 Posts: 2,841 Location: Here
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C&P, from a neighboring village: This will be counted as the usual animosity females tend to display against each other but I will still be honest. I need to revert back to my selfish human tendencies and ask a question because it stands to reason that I should want you to do something for me if I also have done something for you or intend to do something for you in return.
Mr. Muthama has been a well-known businessman and politician for a quite a number of years. As the wife of someone who has financial means, what has his wife done in the past to help members of the public whether in his constituency or in his places of work? What has she done to merit the right to now ask us to 'join in her cry' and help her to get justice? How is this any of our business and WHY IS HAVING TO WALK FROM A GATE TO THE FRONT DOOR AN ISSUE? When she was living it up and enjoying the perks of being a rich man's wife, she didn't call on anyone to share her good fortunes. Why should she want to play victim now and ask those who have their own problems to help her? Even after she has been paid for whatever damages the court will award her (as if), we all know that she won't call on the public to enjoy the spoils.
Sisemi kitu.Life is like playing a violin solo in public and learning the instrument as one goes on.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/17/2013 Posts: 4,693 Location: Earth
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Rankaz13 wrote:C&P, from a neighboring village:
What has she done to merit the right to now ask us to 'join in her cry' and help her to get justice? How is this any of our business
[/i] See this kenyan from the neigh-boring virrage catching feelings,  By commenting on this story, you have without duress made it your business just like the Sababu Anyamba one.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 5/25/2012 Posts: 4,105 Location: 08c
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Opareison okoa mbimbi. Pesa Nane plans to be shilingi when he grows up.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/23/2009 Posts: 13,814 Location: nairobi
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this seppuka guy has written soo finely.. im impressed. ningalikuwa mumiliki wa gazeti
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