Why do you need an answer to this question? The important thing is that you don't cheat, trying to understand the psyche of one half of the planet's population will leave you out of breath. There are no guarantees with, but if it was me being asked by a woman what she would need to do to keep me interested I would advise her thusly:

1. None of that denial-of-sex, in-the-doghouse crap, at least not for long. Keep a man from sex for more than a week and his blueballs condition will have him searching for it outside, with someone else. Girls out there give it up with shocking ease!! Even when they know there is someone else, and perhaps even know her too.

2. Stay slim, pretty, dress well. Outdoor activities help. Most men are scared of losing a gorgeous, well preserved wife.

3. Men remain babies with fragile egos. That means you do not forget about him cause you have given birth. Many women make the mistake of getting totally immersed in raising children and leave a guy to his devices. When she comes to 5 years later when kids are off to school the dude is tapping someone else.

Now #2 and #3 is where women jump in in righteous protest, cause these are all hard sacrifices when the dude has an easy road, but sorry girls, there is no justice on this road. Things are what they are.
Give a dude sex, nice home, a comfortable life, he will think hard before stepping out. It is the thinking that counts. Make life hard and there will be no thinking to temper the erection. My 2 cents.

@tycho is a monk!!!

Yes. One shouldn't have to demand sex, it should be granted willingly. But a guy should expect that his wife will screw him often and for many years to come as long as the bodies and strength allows.
Sex is a primal, base need for humans. Its like hunger for food, thirst for water, you cannot Zen it out. If you don't put something in your stomach, you will die. It should not be the only thing in the relationship, but it is one of the important pillars. When physical intimacy is removed the relationship starts to fester. Its biology. You can repress urges, but you can't eliminate them. Repressed urges lead to bad health or a bad psychological state.

The "cant help it" excuse gets trotted out cause men are well aware women will swallow it. That greatly weakens women's position, cause they weigh a long list of pros and cons then rightly or wrongly decide to stay with the bugger. Not many men will take any excuse from a woman when she cheats, she will be booted out, sometimes after some diabolical violence -kids and family be damned. Thats why women do it with the cunning of the devil while men are cavalier about it.
Of course some men think its their God-given right to bed as many women as possible. Their moral compass is off no matter how hard a woman tries, its a case that can't be helped. My general point here is despite all this gung-ho 'men are made this way', there are a few things a woman can do to keep her dude's lust in check. There are guys out there who don't cheat. They are not from Mars.

@quicksand you're very wise man.

actually dictator of the Ngogoyo family.

Na pia one gives the other receives!!!If you have a hand that is receiving,it will reach a point where it will be full unlike a handwhich is giving which will always have enough space.


what am I saying really?

Ok. I’m about to get fits of hysterical laughter. That is a lazy old cliché still being paraded around. True, in our African culture, men have been polygamous. However, polygamy is not promiscuity! Period. Not only are the words different in spelling, they are different in nature as well. And any sane person trying to connect the two is practising rehearsed idiocy.

@JB,A man by nature is a curious and domineering human being, through evolution/creation it has been proved that man prefers to plant his seeds in many places

Traditionally, a man used to plant many seeds in many places since polygamy was allowed but nowadays society equates polygamy to backwardness that's why men do it secretly.

Somebody up there said there is more sperms than ova thats why one man can sire many kids in a year unlike a woman(bateman principle) thats why many men are keen on casual sex than women which leads men to explore

ION, I think polygamy and cheating is one and the same thing.

Cheating is the modern day polygamy which has been demonized

Wazuans turned you into a monster.