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kysse
#21 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 2:57:08 PM
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Bigchick wrote:
brav wrote:
thanks alot,

@Mukiri he just slept didnt wake up docs called it SID I google it and got ..

SID

Im still digging more info..


But I am also trying to figure out how to deal with the other kids.. how they understand and accept the death etc.. and also to reassure them...

I got this too:
http://www.babycenter.co...er-about-death_67896.bc



Be strong Brav and thank God for the 5 months you shared.I know its difficult but as it is said there is a reason for everything.

I lost my smallchick in January and as you say the issue is dealing with the other kids.

I thought I had done my best and succeeded in helping the other kids accept and move on till i went through my small gals composition about a month ago.She had written about her family and said in part

"We are two children but should be three.God took away our baby brother and he did not allow us to see him.He took him from the hospital and i dont know why.I want mum to born another brother"

It did hit me that they never healed completely and I got some work to do.



Oh my this is very sad,but God bless you two and keep you going strong.
tycho
#22 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 3:05:32 PM
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When I was a 'child', somehow I still believe I am, I used to ask myself what I'd do if death ever visited our home. I'd ask myself 'what if it's x, or y'? 'What if it's me'? And the sad thing was there was no way I could have a straight conversation with anyone.

Now after many years of anxiety I realize that the biggest problem is how we use death for what I may call 'psychological civil warfare'. Somehow death is used as a bulwark of self condemnation and 'glorification'. That's why death is so feared.

Perhaps I should recommend a book by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, 'Death: the final stage of growth'. I believe it will make your conversation livelier, and future 'death' more acceptable.
radio
#23 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 4:06:45 PM
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@Brav and @BigChick, may you find God's comfort and strength!
Muheani
#24 Posted : Wednesday, November 13, 2013 7:10:23 AM
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brav wrote:
Time really flies, so fast, a day like today, last year was the worst day of my life, everything came to a standstill, when our bravlet, took a final bow, and left without even a goodbye we know in heaven he's rejoicing. and here we shall praise Gods name as we remember him...

I choose not to be angry for the time I have not been with him but thank God for the 5 months we had him in our lives ... Lord give the strength and wisdom to be there for the rest of the bravlets



A@Brav,
You are such an encouragement to me.

Psalm 91

4 He will cover you with his feathers,
and under his wings you will find refuge;
his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart.
5 You will not fear the terror of night,
nor the arrow that flies by day,
6 nor the pestilence that stalks in the darkness,
nor the plague that destroys at midday.

9 If you say, “The Lord is my refuge,”
and you make the Most High your dwelling,
10 no harm will overtake you,
no disaster will come near your tent.
11 For he will command his angels concerning you
to guard you in all your ways;
12 they will lift you up in their hands,
so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.

Rankaz13
#25 Posted : Wednesday, November 13, 2013 10:55:41 PM
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@Brav & @BigChick, I do not know what I can possibly say to comfort you guys. I just buried a close relative barely 2wks ago myself and it's still raw. All I can do is pray for you guys that God gives you the strength to keep on.

Find strength to in the words of one of my favorite hymns in the Golden Bells:

Courage..


Life is like playing a violin solo in public and learning the instrument as one goes on.
Angelica _ann
#26 Posted : Wednesday, November 13, 2013 11:11:07 PM
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Wow. You are a great man. gudnite!
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