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Jacy26
#11 Posted : Monday, July 13, 2009 2:07:00 PM
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Now,this gal needs to read the signs of the times,she is simply not important enough to the dude. If I was the one,that wld be the last time he would hear from me.

I will praise thee,O Lord my God,with all my heart: And I will glorify thy name forever more. Psalms 86:12
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Much Know
#12 Posted : Monday, July 13, 2009 2:07:00 PM
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I know i case where a guy made a break for it in such a situation....and the chick froze (instead of taking the cue) stood there....there was absolutely no sense in the man going back...and the thugs fled....what exactly happened in this case of yours?

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Pablo
#13 Posted : Monday, July 13, 2009 2:23:00 PM
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@Jacy

Gal,youll soon need to learn how to fight. See the sentiments here.

I think the type of man who would stay and fight for you is the type of man who would marry two wives without blinking an eyelid,but again do you want to share. Catch 22!!



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shareholder
#14 Posted : Monday, July 13, 2009 2:32:00 PM
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That the man took off is unacceptable. No man leaves his girl behind whatever the circumstance. If you truly loved her,he would fight to death to defend her. But that the girl is complaining makes no sense. The man has just proved incompetent in the most basic role. He's not the husband. Why complain? Tafuta mwingine.

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Njunge
#15 Posted : Monday, July 13, 2009 2:37:00 PM
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Huh...!!...That's not a man...!!....Two most important things a woman will be looking for in a man is love and security............am not saying dude ought to have fought back,but he would have stood by and bargained for their freedom........better still,he would have sought help immediately....!!!......Since he did neither,we can simply say your gal is in love with a chicken...........what happened to 'i would die for you'?

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Spendthrift
#16 Posted : Monday, July 13, 2009 2:46:00 PM
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Ladies,before you trash this guy,I would like Xtina to describe to us all about the situation including the cordinates where it took place.

Instances of criminal attacks call for quick thought and not necessarily heroic reaction (picture the case of the late PS,a trained and perhaps even armed victim).

Sometimes,you need to run so that you can marshall help or re-ambush the thugs especially if you are armed.

From the story though the guy seemed to have ran mpaka nyumbani and only recalled the scene when he met the girl again-Xtina fafanua.


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extrablessed
#17 Posted : Monday, July 13, 2009 2:46:00 PM
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I guess the guy wasnt man enough...He would have stuck with the gal,and plead for mercy together....There would have been no point in risking death of both (man & woman) by attempting to fight the thugs,unless there was extremely high certainty of winning...A knife stub or a gun short aint a nice way to die...but why take off and leave you baibe???? washana naayeee! kubaffff!!




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Shak
#18 Posted : Monday, July 13, 2009 2:50:00 PM
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Reminds me of a time 2 drunken cops accosted me and my then friend. It was pitch dark and could not see their faces. They tried to threaten us but my friend threatened them back. He took a risk to save both of us. Eventually they relented. Can't imagine what would have happened if he deserted me

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chi20
#19 Posted : Monday, July 13, 2009 2:53:00 PM
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the guy did the right thing,period.

imagine a group of say 10 thugs,all armed with guns,knives,matchetes their tools of trades. there is little you can do in such a midst.

secondly,a thug hates betrayal. he is ever tense because for every move he makes,the line between life and death is almost nil. by exiting from the scene,the guy could have frantically sought cops. therefore,the least the thugs could have done is to free from the scene immediately,without creating any disturbances (gun shots,screams et al).







mwana wa kahii. . . .
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Mr.Tea
#20 Posted : Monday, July 13, 2009 3:00:00 PM
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Before you rush to condemn this guy,learn the circumstances.Personally I am convicted that each man is the best judge of his own situation. May be that is what seemed best at the time,if faced by a different situation,he may respond differently. Again nothing illustrates better the quality of his judgement than the outcome. It could have been worse..

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