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Rank: Elder Joined: 8/4/2008 Posts: 2,849 Location: Rupi
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/11/2007 Posts: 1,680 Location: nairobi
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Euge, FRM2011, Guest (15), Impunity, Kaka M, King G, McReggae, mlefu, Money Whisperer, Motomoto, Much Know, quicksand, Wa_ithaka...etc...  yani kunabaridi hivi no one wants to miss a landing thread...@money guy..tupatie datails
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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/5/2010 Posts: 2,459
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Money Whisperer wrote:Ok here's the story. She's cute and with a warm smile, soothing voice,great legs popping from under her skirt suit, the works. So over time we have been chatting whenever I go to the bank, she lights up when she sees me, calls be by first name then attends to my issues. In fact once I had issues with online banking and she gave me her personal number to contact her in case the IT dudes failed to sort my problem, but out of professional courtesy i have not used it to ask her out for coffee. Now I have been watching her ring finger just to make sure the coast is clear and this is where the problem lies. A ring keeps popping up then disappearing. It's been missing for a while. It's not the plain wedding rings but a fancy ring but on the ring finger. So two days ago I walk into the bank, the first time this new year, and I tell myself I have to push the envelope. Game plan: Light up when you see her, walk over, wish her a happy new year and ask her out for coffee to usher in the new year. When I saw her, i lit up kama ngulobu walked over to her desk said hi then her phone rings and she stretches out her left hand to pick it up and the fancy ring is on the damn ring finger! Naomba Wazua ingilie kati kwa sababu singetaka makosa ifanyike.
Yours,
Desperate @moneywhisperer go for it. The worst is not that she will reject you, the real tragedy is that she will accept you. Actally if your account has a balance of 7-digits and above, she will be all over you. I suspect that is the reason she gave you her number. Then we shall wait here to see your post in the Nairobi women thread. Where i come from they say " njira ikura igiaga ime kwi na riua" looesly translated means; a footpath that gets dew even during the sun is about to disappear. okay my translation sucks I need help from @Njunge
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Rank: Member Joined: 8/7/2010 Posts: 728 Location: Wazuaville
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quicksand wrote:Why are you even posing this question? Isnt it obvious what you should do? A man makes his play and leaves the girl to decide, otherwise regret follows. Your window is disappearing fast. So next time ask ...can I buy you coffee? If she rebuffs you, hand over your business card ..say in case she changes her mind. Quite simple. Don't go in with the big guns blazing she might think you are after her pants and your chance will evaporate. When the other dude mucks up she might get around to calling you out of sheer anger and right there will be your opportunity. But you have to make a move first.
Good luck mister. OK. Yeah I know there's a window beyond which the relationship gets stuck in an agonizing status quo. I have to work on the intel fast/first "Money never sleeps"
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 12/21/2011 Posts: 1,010
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@money whisperer,dnt overthink,if its meant to be,it will,if not ,it wont,and the best way to find out is by asking her for the coffee date,dont mind the ring. they fool us with the rings.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2009 Posts: 26,334 Location: Masada
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Money Whisperer wrote:Ok here's the story. She's cute and with a warm smile, soothing voice,great legs popping from under her skirt suit, the works. So over time we have been chatting whenever I go to the bank, she lights up when she sees me, calls be by first name then attends to my issues. In fact once I had issues with online banking and she gave me her personal number to contact her in case the IT dudes failed to sort my problem, but out of professional courtesy i have not used it to ask her out for coffee. Now I have been watching her ring finger just to make sure the coast is clear and this is where the problem lies. A ring keeps popping up then disappearing. It's been missing for a while. It's not the plain wedding rings but a fancy ring but on the ring finger. So two days ago I walk into the bank, the first time this new year, and I tell myself I have to push the envelope. Game plan: Light up when you see her, walk over, wish her a happy new year and ask her out for coffee to usher in the new year. When I saw her, i lit up kama ngulobu walked over to her desk said hi then her phone rings and she stretches out her left hand to pick it up and the fancy ring is on the damn ring finger! Naomba Wazua ingilie kati kwa sababu singetaka makosa ifanyike.
Yours,
Desperate Ring imekwo kwa finger ili kufukuza watu kama ninyi wenye tabia mbovu. But I can bet she is not taken, or she is being in the process of being taken of which case you may ingilia kati depending on your skills and the amount you hold in your foreign currency account! Goodluck! Portfolio: Sold
You know you've made it when you get a parking space for your yatcht.
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Rank: Member Joined: 2/12/2010 Posts: 474 Location: Nairobi
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poor dude! How old are you? If over 23 you are in serious trouble and need professional help. The stories of love in sight aren't real especially with Nairobi women. Its money and nothing else!!! I'ld only sweat over it and be ready to spend some cash if my mission is landing. She will get you in a pond and hung you to dry in the open. She maybe got it first when in class six, had a bf in high school and two rich men to pay for her expenses while in college!!! and you still sweating over her? I know am being judgmental but as most males learn with time, you just can't ignore such. Keep it simple
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/18/2011 Posts: 459
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@ Money Whisperer u r thinking too hard about what might go wrong. There is no harm in asking anyone for coffee especially on a friday evening in January when most people r broke.
If it turns out shes taken, then u can't loose what u don't have so go for it.
Now that it ain't wedding ring,and assuming that she ain't engaged she wouldn't mind getting a 2nd opinion whether all men sweat like her boyfie when it looks like the bill will be so high.
TERMS AND CONDITIONS APPLY.
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Rank: Member Joined: 8/7/2010 Posts: 728 Location: Wazuaville
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mlefu wrote: yani kunabaridi hivi no one wants to miss a landing thread...@money guy..tupatie datails njeve joo! In fact she makes me feel special coz whenever I go to her with an issue, like lets say forex, she pick up the phone and calls some other dude saying I have a very special client haki mtengenezee bei poa usilinilet down, then she goes ahead and fills out the forms with my details without asking me, so I have to keep chatting with her as she types on the keyboard and I get to check her out, the cleavage. eish! mambo biaad! "Money never sleeps"
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/14/2009 Posts: 2,057
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sambaza her some airtime ....kama ya 200 If you are an eagle don't hang around with chickens; chickens don't fly....
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