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Loneliness.....
jguru
#11 Posted : Wednesday, July 04, 2012 4:25:28 PM
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Your friend might be an introvert. That's her personality and personalities do not often change.

She is like Anne below:



"An introvert is likely to enjoy time spent alone and find less reward in time spent with large groups of people, though he or she may enjoy interactions with close friends. Trust is usually an issue of significance: a virtue of utmost importance to an introvert choosing a worthy companion. They prefer to concentrate on a single activity at a time and like to observe situations before they participate. They are more analytical before speaking. Introverts are easily overwhelmed by too much stimulation from social gatherings and engagement." -Wikipedia
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TiggerTiggy
#12 Posted : Wednesday, July 04, 2012 4:37:03 PM
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i bet her expectations are insane. tall, money, handsome, funny, single, doesnt over drink, not a psycho etc. if only she overlooked ALL the above mentioned attributes smile
King G
#13 Posted : Wednesday, July 04, 2012 4:38:33 PM
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Impunity wrote:
digitek1 wrote:
chemos wrote:
karqui wrote:

Pray Pray Pray Pray Pray Pray Pray
Need to help a colleague/friend out of loneliness.
I have offered the advice I know in the book but nothing seems to work, ie steady male friend, clubbing, touring, etc.
She is nice looking and can keep good company but withdrawn and no ’steady’ male. she is not married but has a family, financially stable.
Currently unattached, just shuffles between job, kids and home. She hates the flow and is seeking a better more enjoyable life.



Tembea na Yesu.. wachana na wanaume wa hi dunia..

Na hiyo Steady male ni mgani? yule amesteady????Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly

ama ni @jump-steadyLaughing out loudly


Yule husimama wima...!!!
Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly


Steady - no hit and run, yule anakula leo, kesho na kesho kutwa alafu anarudia mara hiyo hiyo.

kids; how many, how old and sexology yao?
Thieves
Impunity
#14 Posted : Wednesday, July 04, 2012 5:09:49 PM
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King G wrote:
Impunity wrote:
digitek1 wrote:
chemos wrote:
karqui wrote:

Pray Pray Pray Pray Pray Pray Pray
Need to help a colleague/friend out of loneliness.
I have offered the advice I know in the book but nothing seems to work, ie steady male friend, clubbing, touring, etc.
She is nice looking and can keep good company but withdrawn and no ’steady’ male. she is not married but has a family, financially stable.
Currently unattached, just shuffles between job, kids and home. She hates the flow and is seeking a better more enjoyable life.



Tembea na Yesu.. wachana na wanaume wa hi dunia..

Na hiyo Steady male ni mgani? yule amesteady????Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly

ama ni @jump-steadyLaughing out loudly


Yule husimama wima...!!!
Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly


Steady - no hit and run, yule anakula leo, kesho na kesho kutwa alafu anarudia mara hiyo hiyo.

kids; how many, how old and sexology yao?


Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly
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#15 Posted : Wednesday, July 04, 2012 5:41:23 PM
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@jguru, brilliant. Just like that I know I am an Introvert.
karqui
#16 Posted : Wednesday, July 04, 2012 7:39:32 PM
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A few answers from questions asked.
An introvert may be coz she just doesn't open easily but once she opens she is great to sit with even all night long.
Kids are boys 14 and 9 years in a private school.
The over chosy of a guy not really selecrive but casual.
She has just finished a degree and languages.
@chemos, humans are social beings so must interact.
newfarer
#17 Posted : Wednesday, July 04, 2012 8:36:20 PM
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karqui wrote:
A few answers from questions asked.
An introvert may be coz she just doesn't open easily but once she opens she is great to sit with even all night long.
Kids are boys 14 and 9 years in a private school.
The over chosy of a guy not really selecrive but casual.
She has just finished a degree and languages.
@chemos, humans are social beings so must interact.


she must be around 38yrs old.I love older women.they don't stress alot.but unfortunately I'm happily owned so can't consider.
all the best though.
punda amecheka
rock
#18 Posted : Thursday, July 05, 2012 5:24:34 AM
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karqui wrote:
A few answers from questions asked.
An introvert may be coz she just doesn't open easily but once she opens she is great to sit with even all night long.
Kids are boys 14 and 9 years in a private school.
The over chosy of a guy not really selecrive but casual.
She has just finished a degree and languages.
@chemos, humans are social beings so must interact.

Are the kids from the same dad?and what is the definition of a 'casual' guy? IMO: Admin should also consider adding a lonely hearts section-there are many financially stable,introverts who would find it useful.
Rahatupu
#19 Posted : Thursday, July 05, 2012 8:31:35 AM
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rock wrote:
karqui wrote:
A few answers from questions asked.
An introvert may be coz she just doesn't open easily but once she opens she is great to sit with even all night long.
Kids are boys 14 and 9 years in a private school.
The over chosy of a guy not really selecrive but casual.
She has just finished a degree and languages.
@chemos, humans are social beings so must interact.

Are the kids from the same dad?and what is the definition of a 'casual' guy? IMO: Admin should also consider adding a lonely hearts section-there are many financially stable,social retards who would find it useful.
.

@Karqui, Mwambie atafute mtu amfanye mpango wa side. It will be much easier for her, let her lower her expectations as well, to the level ya steady go steady mosmos.
karqui
#20 Posted : Thursday, July 05, 2012 8:46:53 AM
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Location: chokoo
Rahatupu wrote:
rock wrote:
karqui wrote:
A few answers from questions asked.
An introvert may be coz she just doesn't open easily but once she opens she is great to sit with even all night long.
Kids are boys 14 and 9 years in a private school.
The over chosy of a guy not really selecrive but casual.
She has just finished a degree and languages.
@chemos, humans are social beings so must interact.

Are the kids from the same dad?and what is the definition of a 'casual' guy? IMO: Admin should also consider adding a lonely hearts section-there are many financially stable,social retards who would find it useful.
.

@Karqui, Mwambie atafute mtu amfanye mpango wa side. It will be much easier for her, let her lower her expectations as well, to the level ya steady go steady mosmos.


There seems to many jokers and she is getting disappointed, she says all they want is goodies then they MIA.
Hii maisha ningumu to make a balance. she is getting worried by the day as kids will soon be grown and leave the hub making it more lonelier.
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