I have come to notice something in this site... whenever a man comes here with a problem that he needs help,we bash him and belittle him telling him how inadequate he is... am starting to wonder,really,does it mean all that women do is excused in the name of 'man not giving enough sugarcane,man not sensitive enough,man not....blablabla..' am a woman,but sometimes i know women can drive men up and down the wall... this i talk out of my brothers galfriend.... she is one of those psychos who will want you to say 'i love you,you are the most beautiful woman in the world.... sugar honey sweet nothing' every minute you see her passing past you watching soccer in the house.... Its hard... its really hard... i see what he goes through....

gals need some self esteem.... really..... Once in a while you need compliments but ALL the time????

@nanfor..........................................................................................................................


Some deals are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.

@Mali ya mungu - I never know why learned SK members like abusing one another. Anyway,just to help you,I have come to study likes of women. They mind so much abt 'what they want to hear'. My partner is similar to yours. Imagine every morning,she wants to be told 'you are smart','you look younger than your age' etc. I realized if I dont tell her,she will ask me. Since it costs nothing,I decided to be telling her often.

Behold whenever I drop her at offce,she requests to be pecked b4 moving out of the car. I find it very demanding,but I say - I lose nothing if this makes her happy. Does your wife also like alot of romance b4 sex?




'Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it'. Santayana,Philosopher

@wendz,wow! Umeongea kama wamama 50! Women...I also dont really understand them. Just be patient n if u cant,then try throw a similar one at her n try all those tricks obi said. @nanfor,thats gross!

Truest proverb: Mwenda pole hajikwai

@Wamukiva you made me smile.

What do you mean she requests to be pecked.

She should not be requesting this,you should be kissing her full on the lips when dropping her,c'mon,you are stuck with the woman for life,you should be enjoying going through the motions.

So square your shoulders and give her something to keep her going for the day.


I guess if you can't win with facts,you can always pen bile-laced,xenophobic rants to distract everyone.

@nanfor - You use dildos and want to tell me you are not a sexual pervert? Anyway,I understand you are a woman,how do they feel and where can I get them?

Mali ya Mungu