Hi wazuans,
This is not my first time on the site after i lost my password and wazua admins could not help. I live abroad and for some time now i have been trying to invest back home. Shares land and all, however i decided to use family as most people do instead of using friends who are "less reliable" . I have been conned too much especially by my bro and imagine am just a younger sister . At first i sent some chumes for an IPO only to get some few shares and since there was a refund i advised him to use the money to buy the shares of the same Co once the trade starts.
He told me he did it and i just got to know that he kulad the money after i went home a year later. I continued to trust him and could send him money from time to time only that he is a big spender and living large. This has been for three years. He worked for one year and then became jobless after being fired. By the time, he had gotten married and has two kids already .
I keep sending him money even now that he is married but i do not think am doing him good as a sister. Infact he represents what one would call those waiting for hand outs . He is so selective on jobs that there are those he does not want to do just coz he is a univ graduate mind you am in US and working at three restos to send him some money and am also a graduate . He is still jobless. I believe am not helping him by sending him money every now and then . His wife does not work either . They are making me poorer and do not know what to do , i do not know if i stop the handouts . please help

young lady, I was in your shoes. Cut off all contacts asap! they will call you mean and evil and not caring about the family. But you just have to. I'm back in Kenya and I have still cut off my contacts. Guess what, now they say how sharp I am....don't ever take it as your responsibility to feed anyone who's above 18.