Could it be that the reason why this guy changed Napkins, went to marigiti and ironed his wive's clothes was coz of kukaliwa and not love. He had the money and as usual some woman was able to smell it and she was going to enjoy it till the tap ran dry.
Looking at the behaviour of the Kids who I expect are grown ups it's obvious they are without morals. I think actually the behaviour of the kids sheds some light into why this is happening. Was the father home to teach em to be upright, God fearing respectful or are they punishing him for neglecting them when they needed him etc? (Offcourse that's no reason to insult a father.)
Or the wife was the one running the show and the hubby was almost like a houseboy. Exceptions do exist though!!!!