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Rank: Elder Joined: 5/26/2009 Posts: 1,793
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Oooh! God the most important thing is to be rich, once that is taken care of, company will always be there, good company!
the most important thing is satisfaction. If you got that, all the other gears run fine.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 9/19/2011 Posts: 1,694
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Drunkard wrote: People like to pretend that getting married is a great thing. The other day, I had a conversation with my mother and she popped the question," when are you gonna get married," Honestly I wanted to tell her that that was was the dumbest question she has ever ask me but I held back.
Anyway, maybe it is just me, but the question is; it worthy to get married? Is marriage important? I know people will point at kids and say it is important so that someone can help raise kids, but what about if you can afford to hire a nanny and save oneself the misery of seeing an ageing woman sleeping next to you!
Don't get me wrong, I love women and I love kids, but I don't like the marriage arrangment and I know 80% of men don't, I know 90% of men get cold feet during their wedding and I know alot of married men who love the not married lifestyle. I have a 5 yr old son right now, I pay child support and I see him every evening for 2hrs and he stays in my place every other weekend, I also have a g/f who is 8 yrs younger than me and don't ask me how I spend my money and I don't have to call her if I don't feel like and when I am watching Football she stays away from my place, i will also replace her when I see someone else better, it is a perfect arrangement, why would I blow this up with a marriage? People also like to pretend that marriage is not a good thing. Like someone has already pointed out, no need to seek approval if you feel you are already happy with your current lifestyle.
“People will believe a big lie sooner than a little one, and if you repeat it frequently enough, people will sooner or later believe it.” ― Walter C. Langer
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Rank: New-farer Joined: 8/25/2010 Posts: 97 Location: Kenya
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Your reasoning is immature despite your age. Mariage is a good thing (from personal experience) and would advise anyone with right attitude, aproach and mature mind to marry.
The unfortunate thing is that you may run away from mariage today only to find yourself obsessed of it tomorrow. Why run away from a bridge that most likely you'l have to cross?
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 3/16/2009 Posts: 1,464
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Rafiki yangu, don't fight nature or it's laws for that matter.
You must take up a vocation (hope that's the word)in life.
My advise to you: Get married even if you don't want to. Utazoea as you go along.
Think of it like it happens for most kids, your first day in school and you cry in defiance and resistance.Within no time you get to like school so much, you are almost inseparable.
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Rank: User Joined: 11/10/2010 Posts: 550 Location: Junction
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Drunkard wrote: People like to pretend that getting married is a great thing. The other day, I had a conversation with my mother and she popped the question," when are you gonna get married," Honestly I wanted to tell her that that was was the dumbest question she has ever ask me but I held back.
Anyway, maybe it is just me, but the question is; it worthy to get married? Is marriage important? I know people will point at kids and say it is important so that someone can help raise kids, but what about if you can afford to hire a nanny and save oneself the misery of seeing an ageing woman sleeping next to you!
Don't get me wrong, I love women and I love kids, but I don't like the marriage arrangment and I know 80% of men don't, I know 90% of men get cold feet during their wedding and I know alot of married men who love the not married lifestyle. I have a 5 yr old son right now, I pay child support and I see him every evening for 2hrs and he stays in my place every other weekend, I also have a g/f who is 8 yrs younger than me and don't ask me how I spend my money and I don't have to call her if I don't feel like and when I am watching Football she stays away from my place, i will also replace her when I see someone else better, it is a perfect arrangement, why would I blow this up with a marriage? Talk to 'Sure'. Last time she was on the subject, she talked about contract marriage. Dig up the thread, and please get in touch with her. She might be the one you have been thinking about. By inference, the man is all that Mr Phantom is not: an untrustworthy radical, divisive, too many enemies, a dictator, and a persistent liar...Gaitho dialogues.
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Rank: Member Joined: 9/30/2011 Posts: 483
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Everyone should run their own race. No one marriage is similar to the other. Make your choice and live with it.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 3/31/2008 Posts: 761 Location: Nairobi
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God said it is not good for a man to be alone. Then he who finds a wife finds a good thing, but then u must love her n she must submit, that is the perfect arrangement n the best set up for ur 5yr to grow in. Hiyo yako sio perfect, unajidanganya tu. But paul said those with the grace not to marry can abstain from it, but they got no license to fornicate. Tafakari hayo. When I admire the wonder of a sunset or the beauty
of the moon, my soul expands in worship of the Creator.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/27/2011 Posts: 1,777
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Drunkard wrote:@ The attraction I get right now is because of Money, I am not that rich but come on, I am more adored now than I was when I was broke( I am still as ugly as I was), I am even more funny they say! I know it is not me, it is the money they think I have. So to say there could be someone who could love anyone no matter what is a little out of line! You are a very honest guy.
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Rank: Member Joined: 6/26/2008 Posts: 365
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Drunkard wrote: People like to pretend that getting married is a great thing. The other day, I had a conversation with my mother and she popped the question," when are you gonna get married," Honestly I wanted to tell her that that was was the dumbest question she has ever ask me but I held back.
Anyway, maybe it is just me, but the question is; it worthy to get married? Is marriage important? I know people will point at kids and say it is important so that someone can help raise kids, but what about if you can afford to hire a nanny and save oneself the misery of seeing an ageing woman sleeping next to you!
Don't get me wrong, I love women and I love kids, but I don't like the marriage arrangment and I know 80% of men don't, I know 90% of men get cold feet during their wedding and I know alot of married men who love the not married lifestyle. I have a 5 yr old son right now, I pay child support and I see him every evening for 2hrs and he stays in my place every other weekend, I also have a g/f who is 8 yrs younger than me and don't ask me how I spend my money and I don't have to call her if I don't feel like and when I am watching Football she stays away from my place, i will also replace her when I see someone else better, it is a perfect arrangement, why would I blow this up with a marriage? So, you think you would not be ageing yourself??  your problem is not marriage but a bad attitude. If you have only one smile in you, give it to the people you love - Maya Angelou
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 12/3/2010 Posts: 1,141 Location: Londokwe
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Deuteronomy 8:17-18 New International Version (NIV) DRUNKARD On the money issue and attraction: 17 You may say to yourself, “My power and the strength of my hands have produced this wealth for me.” 18 But remember the LORD your God, for it is he who gives you the ability to produce wealth, and so confirms his covenant, which he swore to your ancestors, as it is today. Chunga sana 2012 is here.Kenya is Ours.Be Part of The Peace Keeping Mission To Protect Our Motherland.Say No To Violence and Tribal Hatred .If you can read this,wewe ni mtu amesoma, usifikirie kama mtu hajaenda shule .Ni Hayo Tu
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