mimi saa ingine sijuangi hii maneno.... why would a lady wait until she is dismissed or a guy is having sleepless nights calculating how to leave her? What happened to reading the signs of times and dumping it while it is still hot and burning the bloody bridges yourself if he wont do it? I mean, please, we ladies need to keep your dignity/pride or whatever other name it goes by.... There should never be a point where the man if trying to figure out how to leave you and is finding it difficult! If the relationship is stinking for him, it should have "stunk" for you ages ago!! And if he doesnt wanna keep it, why would you want to keep it either?

By the time the man is figuring out how to leave you, he left long ago emotionally... the remaining part is the "physical" part of leaving.... kwani hakuona ile emotional departure?

I dont know how to give advise to men on how to leave a woman but if it was a lady, i'd tell her "lady, dump it, burn the bridges and excavate the river wider, dust your hands off and move into the wild and explore the world!" May be the guy should do the same.

Eish, this is risky. If the guy is a member of Wazua, Wendz's comments may make the guy change his mind.

ukiagiza kitu alafu ubadilishe lazima ulipie zote

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Na kama ni expired ama outdated ama haitoshi mboga?

@wends,u r right.A lady should be able to read in between the line kitambo and before he says it is over you left him ages ago.Its muuuuch better to be alone than be with someone who does not want to be with you,hold your head high and the best medicine for him is to see you happy with someone else.