I have no time, I can tell you that for sure. Unless am taking her out, (which is rare lest it becomes a right), I am with the boys till one of two things happen, or both.

1. Someone reminds us that it is weekday and we are on A.M hours.

2. We all run out of cash - good thing here is that none of us goes to ATM's at some ungodly time, we can never let you do that

Hiyo ingine ya wakina @wednz ni story; hiyo ya @peppy ni panganga tu....ati uone watoto kwanza halafu utoke, how now???... huo ni mtego and u end up disrupting so many things.

Boss you did not get me right. I changed MY rules that day. There is a way a woman can handle issues, my guy, you just change YOUR rules. If she had letad fujo... it would have been a very different story.

Weeeee, @king the fisher.... read my 1st sentence.... i said we are different.... and i also said "for me".... it was purposeful... chances are, if you ask mrs fisher, she'd be in a different category (may be same as @pep).... the fact that you do it, doesnt mean she likes it, even though she may not raise heaven or hell over it. The fact that we like it one way, doesnt mean it happens that way.... and if it does, it is not all the time.... What happens with most women is that there are those things that we may not necessarily like but you will do and we do wont lift a finger over it... but there are those that we wont "bend over".... we choose our battles depending on what is important to us.... though differently.

Reminds me a friend whose mama pigad kelele for coming late and the guy decided to stop it. After 3 months guy coming home before 6 and leaving the hse after mama has gone to work and weekends staying in the hse the whole day, the mama decided its enough so in the morning he asked why dont you go out and read the newspaper with other men nowadays, then came evening and mama gave him a kool 5k and said i believe your guys must be missing those times you used to drink together just buy them something today

mwathani, soldier ange angukia

Discussing these things quietly always works-it did even in Guka's time i see! Those one liners always work when said gently and when u have 'fungiliad' your wrath... Just punch the right buttons, pretty much like when u really want something which is in the guy's 10yr devpt plan...

You didn't set these rules at the beginning of your marriage? You got her used to coming as she wish and now you want to question it?

There is something called setting the basis, which if not done on first instance, then you lost it!

One off is allowed, provided there was communication. Marriage is not jail but a union. Kuzoeiya ndiye mbaya.

Women are too intelligent for the average man.If she wants it outside,she gets it and you will do nothing about it . Here is an experiment for you. Go to the nearest stream with a spear. Put the spear at any point inside the stream then withdraw .See if you can be able to point where the spear went through. That is a woman for you.