@All,am sure am not entertaining this nonesense.When he came back last yr when the baby was 2mnths old,he asked me where i live coz i had moved liked 3 times and i didnt disclose.So he got annoyed and went back without seeing us.This time around i maintaind my stand,we wld rather meet on top of a tree but not my hse.
This time he came with a differnt approach,he attacked my pastor and accused him for seperating us since the pastor new about what happen .......in short he took the fight to the church.Pple who i have never talked to ever since we seperated.
The guy calls using differnt lines coz i had deleted his numbers and all i want is how to know how to stop him completely.I swear i will do what a woman has got to do for the sake of peace.As far as am concerned,i had received a healing in my heart and am a step a head.He calls asking me of how far am gone since he wants to move on and when i asked him to explain what he really mean,he says that he is confused and we are not enemies.So i told him to move on since me personally am already moving on.
Sometimes last year,i told him that i will go dump the baby to his mother.Just wanted to know his reaction now that the baby is born and doing very well,but his answer was that if i take her to his paros is the same as digging grave for the baby
I am prepared to face the challanges and protect the baby as much as possible.Yes i loved him those days but right now i have got no feelings for him at all,not even a little trust to an extent that when he request for a meeting,i do have a feeling that may be he want to eliminate the two of us coz he wants to be seen as a good man who is perfect.
@wendz,he is not a Luyha,atleast am safe and i dont mind my dota growing without a father.I will just tell her the fact and am sure by Gods grace she will understand.The good thing is that i know God will provide a father to her,a very good one who will not see her as an obstacle or an accident but as a blessing created for a purpose.