Hi,
Sorry I was off air. But thanks for your observations.
By the way, I was just mentioning a matter that one of my friends has - he is in no position to bring the matter here.
Now, do you mean to say that one boy can not live with another relative? This is the point my friend had: and you know what he was told? That the two boys can not live separate.
If a lady can say that and they are not married, what about when they are married!!
That is why I was of the opinion that the lady was broadcasting a decision: she had decided between her late brother's boys and my friend!
Hard world. Frankly, two boys about 6 to 10 years, you bring them up till they achieve independence and then they can turn against you - this is a hard world!