Somethings cannot be avoided, but most can be avoided.

jaribu, what happened to jaribu?

@bwenyenye, sio mimi. LOL.

One time during our mobile phone conversations, at night, just before the hubby-came-in-from-work-hours, she got busted. The hubby had come earlier and crept in the house. I think he always suspected there was something. Clearly I couldnt find out from him. She was surprised and ended the call. Moments later, the dude dialed the last call. Yes. Lets just say, that's the last time that ever happened to me.

The worst thing is when you are caught in a situation where your partner has that dangerous confidante, but on one hand, if you bring up the issue, it looks like you're coming in between them, and if you try and act secure and leave it alone, you risk your partner being pinched from right under your nose. What to do in such a situation?

@Jacy26 - Couldn't agree more... Emotional infidelity is Cheating. It's possible to cheat on your spouse without involving yourself physically. Emotional affairs violate trust and honesty in your marriage. Cheating does not only mean sex, but it involves faith and keeping the vows both husband and wife made.