guys are still here?

Last but not least.Don't be deceived by looks alone.Before you take a plunge,go for the one feared test.
We never know the number of vehicles using the highway.
They tend to drop goods as they are driven past the highway.Some drop sand,stones others goats,passengers,miraa,na kadhalika and make driving miserable for the guys behind them.

Ok here's the story. She's cute and with a warm smile, soothing voice,great legs popping from under her skirt suit, the works. So over time we have been chatting whenever I go to the bank, she lights up when she sees me, calls be by first name then attends to my issues. In fact once I had issues with online banking and she gave me her personal number to contact her in case the IT dudes failed to sort my problem, but out of professional courtesy i have not used it to ask her out for coffee. Now I have been watching her ring finger just to make sure the coast is clear and this is where the problem lies. A ring keeps popping up then disappearing. It's been missing for a while. It's not the plain wedding rings but a fancy ring but on the ring finger. So two days ago I walk into the bank, the first time this new year, and I tell myself I have to push the envelope. Game plan: Light up when you see her, walk over, wish her a happy new year and ask her out for coffee to usher in the new year. When I saw her, i lit up kama ngulobu walked over to her desk said hi then her phone rings and she stretches out her left hand to pick it up and the fancy ring is on the damn ring finger! Naomba Wazua ingilie kati kwa sababu singetaka makosa ifanyike.

Yours,
Desperate

@ Money Whisperer

I know someone who is going through this. It is not funny.

@money whisperer

You are a Kiguoya! Period...

Yaani....asking for advice whether to go ask a dead cute girl out? just because you have seen a ring?

if she makes my heart jump.....if she is cute...... .Fancy rings and brings or Not... hata kama she drives a boeing.... where i come frm we dont seek for advice...NOPE... we tell a story after we have TRIED!!

with all due respect ...Tsia yoho uli mri!!!!Thii nakuu kiguoya giki!!

You really didn't say what you want with this woman and that makes it hard to advise you.
But here is an overall fact, women like bold guys, already you are showing interest without making a move, the longer you do that the lesser she respect you, infact you are acting like a highschool boy right now, she is not a virgin for christ sake, say something to her, anything but please do not say, can I take you out for shopping? that is stupid. Also don't forget to brush your teeth and smell good.
One time I walked to a woman and whisper to her ear that I wanted to make out with her and before the end of the night I was making out with her. Always remember, women want to play as much men do. Trying to show her that you have a fat bank account won't make her want to f*** you, it will only make her want to spend your money. You don't want to be the guy feeding the cow and someone else is milking it, you want to be the guy milking it while someone else is feeding it.
Forget about let me take you to coffee stuff, that is a long tired and boring courtship, take her to the bar instead, and don't be too nice, the nicer you get the hard she will be.