seppuku wrote:MaichBlack wrote:newfarer wrote:playing with another man's wife is an express ticket to grave and hell.
People never learn!!! NEVER joke with someone wife! You will MOST PROBABLY end up dead - earlier than your time. Even if someone hates his wife to the max, don't mess!
Here are the dos and don'ts of dealings with a married woman.
Don'ts: Don't mess with someone's wife.
Dos: Do not mess with someone wife.
It's shame to see people givng on to advances from other people's wives. What do they expect anyway!
Let me tell you small story from one of the hadiths:One day a youth went to prophet Muhammad (p.b.u.h) seeking permission to commit adultery.
He said: "Please permit me to commit adultery." The Companions of the prophet took this very ill and were enraged at his words;
But prophet said to him: "Come nearer to me. Would you like anyone to commit adultery with your mother?" He said: "Not at all." Prophet said: "Then other people will also never tolerate such a shameful act with their mothers." Then prophet asked him the same question about his sister, aunt, etc.
And he answered each time in the negative.Then prophet put his hand on his chest and prayed: "
O God! Purify his heart, forgive his sins and guard him against adultery."
The reporters say that, after thisnothing was more hateful to the young than adultery.
In Islam, one of the worst sins is ZinaIt's one of the worst sin!
God says:
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Quote:Do not go near zina. It is indeed a shameful and an evil path." (Surah Al Isra, Chapter 17 verse 32)
Fornication, adultery don't go near!For those people who belief it's no big thing, it's okay, it's not such a bad thing, I want you to know that the idea is not to go near it.
An Hadith says,
Quote:"Whenever a man is alone with a woman the Devil makes a third."
So we should always try not to be alonewith a woman who is not mahrum to us and not even go close to Zina.
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A mahram is a male or a woman you can never marry because of close relationship (e.g. a brother, sister, father, mother etc)]
Another hadith speaks to youth saying: "O young men, who amongst you can afford to get married,
should marry, for this will be a means of restraining the eyes from casting an evil glance and keeping one pure and chaste."