Suppose u tell the hubby that you are aware he has cheated on you again, then go ahead and give him license to cheat whenever he can but insist that he uses protection. Then treat him very well. Tell him you want to understand why he does it. Chances are that it will get him thinking deeply about his ways and will most likely mend them. It might just be the start of reforming him and will at least ensure you don't get HIV on your marital bed.......and if he reforms, your in for a very wonderful time.

hmmmmm boy ohh boy hasnt life changed: zamani such dramas were found in the estates the mama would shout n scream beating the cheating hubby, when she caught her hubby red-handed, and the embarrased dude would always be like "mama kevin ingia kwa nyumba tuongee.. sasa hii ni mambo gani..." . siku hizi its a matter of a click of a button and use of a keyboard (situko mbele?) , it reminds me of an incident less than 2 years ago my neighbour who was caught pants down juu ya mboch, the wife caused a scene, mbaya, she left to somewhere i think kwao lakini juzi nimeanza kumuona, alirudi nyumbani.

Anyhoos All the best gift and Hardhitter(no wonder the name lol just kidding man) that a good gesture @wazua.