What has happened to us men? Ati moneywise, you are asking how you respond to a lady who says she is her nightie and she is cold? Anyway, next time either tell her, "wacha nikunje" or if you previously ate, mwambie avae jumper.

If you don't fancy another eating, just stay underground for a few days then tell her you've become saved next time you meet. Akikataa, mwonyeshe tent and tell her how you must not because of your new faith. Ata kulia works though that is extreme.

Aki hata nilikuwa nimeshindwa vile nitamjibu!! Wooiii.

I currently live in a society where the woman is blamed for everything. If I am sexually assaulted, its because I was not appropriately dressed. If I am unmarried, its because I am not good enough. I am not a virgin, then I am bad and I should be condemned. The saddest bit about all these is that women have been made to also believe that its always there fault.

I hope to see a situation when we call it as it is regardless of the person. And these small annoying generalizations should stop already. We have socialized enough to know that a person has soo much more to offer

@Chepkel how do you tell that a man is a virgin?

If you dont tell her in black and white she will never know whats in your mind.So tell her.

Meanwhile had you shown an iota of interest before? Or better still have you fished her?

If not then it should not be a difficult task but do it like a gentleman.

Tell her you appreciate her "liking" you and her feelings towards you but you are married or engaged and dont want to waste her time .

15 years happily married, right? You once felt MWK was straining your marriage, no?