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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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CLK wrote:@tycho, am not sure you are a parent, i am one, and whoever i parent even for a day (read nieces, nephews and younger cousins), there will always be rules of the day, my child goes to a school where the teachers spank them, ofcourse it will not be the same as what i went through but i dont mind it, and i have rules and regulations in my house, the difference between my spanking my child and my mum spanking me is, the child knows beforehand what to expect if she broke any of the rules set, and i like the fact that i dont have to wait to discover a mistake happened, it is reported the moment i walk through the door, it might sound military style but kids need a leash, you can choose to let yours free.
Am way over 18 but i have never sipped alcohol in my mum's house, its a rule and everyone follows it so as long as that child is my responsibility, certain things will happen my way.
My mum once spanked me for something i didnt do, and its only recently she apologized, does that mean i love her less, if anything when one becomes a parent you realize how hard it was for your parents, raising five kids, having a full-time job, rearing chicken, cows and having a mini garden.
Now you want to tell me having lots of money, getting your child a driver to drop her/him at Galleria/TRM with a bundle of money to go hang out with friends, that's showing love to your children?? Thats the freedom?
I cannot tell how bhang looks like at my age, my niece just joined campus and her roommates smoke it, yes times have really changed, who changed them?
I hear 'kwa akina nani wanakubaliwa kufanya hivi na vile' and my response has always been, 'you can go live with akina nani'
I will not expose my child to nonsense in the name of comformity, and this business of wanting to fit in is what makes those kids do stupid things, for instance how do parents dress nowadays?
As for @tycho comparing this to me trying to control my periods is insane, those are kids for heaven's sake. I worry for those generations i pray for my kids, and honestly i encourage people not to have children if one cannot be there for them physically. @CLK, what's insane is you assuming you know the similarity am talking about without asking. And as you've said you give similar answers to your children.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 9/19/2011 Posts: 1,694
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CLK wrote:@tycho, am not sure you are a parent, i am one, and whoever i parent even for a day (read nieces, nephews and younger cousins), there will always be rules of the day, my child goes to a school where the teachers spank them, ofcourse it will not be the same as what i went through but i dont mind it, and i have rules and regulations in my house, the difference between my spanking my child and my mum spanking me is, the child knows beforehand what to expect if she broke any of the rules set, and i like the fact that i dont have to wait to discover a mistake happened, it is reported the moment i walk through the door, it might sound military style but kids need a leash, you can choose to let yours free.
Am way over 18 but i have never sipped alcohol in my mum's house, its a rule and everyone follows it so as long as that child is my responsibility, certain things will happen my way.
My mum once spanked me for something i didnt do, and its only recently she apologized, does that mean i love her less, if anything when one becomes a parent you realize how hard it was for your parents, raising five kids, having a full-time job, rearing chicken, cows and having a mini garden.
Now you want to tell me having lots of money, getting your child a driver to drop her/him at Galleria/TRM with a bundle of money to go hang out with friends, that's showing love to your children?? Thats the freedom?
I cannot tell how bhang looks like at my age, my niece just joined campus and her roommates smoke it, yes times have really changed, who changed them?
I hear 'kwa akina nani wanakubaliwa kufanya hivi na vile' and my response has always been, 'you can go live with akina nani'
I will not expose my child to nonsense in the name of comformity, and this business of wanting to fit in is what makes those kids do stupid things, for instance how do parents dress nowadays?
As for @tycho comparing this to me trying to control my periods is insane, those are kids for heaven's sake. I worry for those generations i pray for my kids, and honestly i encourage people not to have children if one cannot be there for them physically. Where is the like button when you need it!!
“People will believe a big lie sooner than a little one, and if you repeat it frequently enough, people will sooner or later believe it.” ― Walter C. Langer
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Rank: Member Joined: 11/19/2009 Posts: 3,142
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tycho wrote:Mukiri wrote:Buster wrote:McReggae wrote:washiku wrote:Tuko wengi  Yeah, wakishaingia thread inageuka inakuwa #kusomatucorner for many of us!!!! Thought I was alone.  And the way I wanted to share my take And what prevented you from doing so? And why haven't you said what you were dying to say on your post? Actually, I am glad I played a role in making him zip it. He would not have said anything useful, anyway!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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Kratos wrote:CLK wrote:@tycho, am not sure you are a parent, i am one, and whoever i parent even for a day (read nieces, nephews and younger cousins), there will always be rules of the day, my child goes to a school where the teachers spank them, ofcourse it will not be the same as what i went through but i dont mind it, and i have rules and regulations in my house, the difference between my spanking my child and my mum spanking me is, the child knows beforehand what to expect if she broke any of the rules set, and i like the fact that i dont have to wait to discover a mistake happened, it is reported the moment i walk through the door, it might sound military style but kids need a leash, you can choose to let yours free.
Am way over 18 but i have never sipped alcohol in my mum's house, its a rule and everyone follows it so as long as that child is my responsibility, certain things will happen my way.
My mum once spanked me for something i didnt do, and its only recently she apologized, does that mean i love her less, if anything when one becomes a parent you realize how hard it was for your parents, raising five kids, having a full-time job, rearing chicken, cows and having a mini garden.
Now you want to tell me having lots of money, getting your child a driver to drop her/him at Galleria/TRM with a bundle of money to go hang out with friends, that's showing love to your children?? Thats the freedom?
I cannot tell how bhang looks like at my age, my niece just joined campus and her roommates smoke it, yes times have really changed, who changed them?
I hear 'kwa akina nani wanakubaliwa kufanya hivi na vile' and my response has always been, 'you can go live with akina nani'
I will not expose my child to nonsense in the name of comformity, and this business of wanting to fit in is what makes those kids do stupid things, for instance how do parents dress nowadays?
As for @tycho comparing this to me trying to control my periods is insane, those are kids for heaven's sake. I worry for those generations i pray for my kids, and honestly i encourage people not to have children if one cannot be there for them physically. Where is the like button when you need it!! God have mercy.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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Muriel wrote:tycho wrote:Mukiri wrote:Buster wrote:McReggae wrote:washiku wrote:Tuko wengi Yeah, wakishaingia thread inageuka inakuwa #kusomatucorner for many of us!!!! Thought I was alone. And the way I wanted to share my take And what prevented you from doing so? And why haven't you said what you were dying to say on your post? Actually, I am glad I played a role in making him zip it. He would not have said anything useful, anyway! Where's the 'like' button when you need it!!! Lol.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 9/19/2011 Posts: 1,694
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tycho wrote:Kratos wrote:CLK wrote:@tycho, am not sure you are a parent, i am one, and whoever i parent even for a day (read nieces, nephews and younger cousins), there will always be rules of the day, my child goes to a school where the teachers spank them, ofcourse it will not be the same as what i went through but i dont mind it, and i have rules and regulations in my house, the difference between my spanking my child and my mum spanking me is, the child knows beforehand what to expect if she broke any of the rules set, and i like the fact that i dont have to wait to discover a mistake happened, it is reported the moment i walk through the door, it might sound military style but kids need a leash, you can choose to let yours free.
Am way over 18 but i have never sipped alcohol in my mum's house, its a rule and everyone follows it so as long as that child is my responsibility, certain things will happen my way.
My mum once spanked me for something i didnt do, and its only recently she apologized, does that mean i love her less, if anything when one becomes a parent you realize how hard it was for your parents, raising five kids, having a full-time job, rearing chicken, cows and having a mini garden.
Now you want to tell me having lots of money, getting your child a driver to drop her/him at Galleria/TRM with a bundle of money to go hang out with friends, that's showing love to your children?? Thats the freedom?
I cannot tell how bhang looks like at my age, my niece just joined campus and her roommates smoke it, yes times have really changed, who changed them?
I hear 'kwa akina nani wanakubaliwa kufanya hivi na vile' and my response has always been, 'you can go live with akina nani'
I will not expose my child to nonsense in the name of comformity, and this business of wanting to fit in is what makes those kids do stupid things, for instance how do parents dress nowadays?
As for @tycho comparing this to me trying to control my periods is insane, those are kids for heaven's sake. I worry for those generations i pray for my kids, and honestly i encourage people not to have children if one cannot be there for them physically. Where is the like button when you need it!! God have mercy. On you
“People will believe a big lie sooner than a little one, and if you repeat it frequently enough, people will sooner or later believe it.” ― Walter C. Langer
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Rank: Member Joined: 11/19/2009 Posts: 3,142
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tycho wrote:kiterunner wrote:the old churches like Catholic, AIC, Presbyterian, Methodist, SDA.... run churches, schools, universities ..... that benefit society directly. The mavunos of this world collect more mbegu than the oldschool churches per capita. Someone show me something practical they do for society besides 'saving' your soul from darkness and promising you never ending wealth, promotion and cures for everything These mavuno pastors were educated in the traditional schools. Then it is most unfortunate that they broke away. The other day someone here was talking that it is alright for a pastor to leave his church and go found his own if he cant get along with the other members. 'His career' was the term he used. Well, they must be business then.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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Kratos wrote:tycho wrote:Kratos wrote:CLK wrote:@tycho, am not sure you are a parent, i am one, and whoever i parent even for a day (read nieces, nephews and younger cousins), there will always be rules of the day, my child goes to a school where the teachers spank them, ofcourse it will not be the same as what i went through but i dont mind it, and i have rules and regulations in my house, the difference between my spanking my child and my mum spanking me is, the child knows beforehand what to expect if she broke any of the rules set, and i like the fact that i dont have to wait to discover a mistake happened, it is reported the moment i walk through the door, it might sound military style but kids need a leash, you can choose to let yours free.
Am way over 18 but i have never sipped alcohol in my mum's house, its a rule and everyone follows it so as long as that child is my responsibility, certain things will happen my way.
My mum once spanked me for something i didnt do, and its only recently she apologized, does that mean i love her less, if anything when one becomes a parent you realize how hard it was for your parents, raising five kids, having a full-time job, rearing chicken, cows and having a mini garden.
Now you want to tell me having lots of money, getting your child a driver to drop her/him at Galleria/TRM with a bundle of money to go hang out with friends, that's showing love to your children?? Thats the freedom?
I cannot tell how bhang looks like at my age, my niece just joined campus and her roommates smoke it, yes times have really changed, who changed them?
I hear 'kwa akina nani wanakubaliwa kufanya hivi na vile' and my response has always been, 'you can go live with akina nani'
I will not expose my child to nonsense in the name of comformity, and this business of wanting to fit in is what makes those kids do stupid things, for instance how do parents dress nowadays?
As for @tycho comparing this to me trying to control my periods is insane, those are kids for heaven's sake. I worry for those generations i pray for my kids, and honestly i encourage people not to have children if one cannot be there for them physically. Where is the like button when you need it!! God have mercy. On you Yes. For suffering hypocrites and liars.
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Rank: Member Joined: 11/19/2009 Posts: 3,142
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tycho wrote:Kratos wrote:CLK wrote:@tycho, am not sure you are a parent, i am one, and whoever i parent even for a day (read nieces, nephews and younger cousins), there will always be rules of the day, my child goes to a school where the teachers spank them, ofcourse it will not be the same as what i went through but i dont mind it, and i have rules and regulations in my house, the difference between my spanking my child and my mum spanking me is, the child knows beforehand what to expect if she broke any of the rules set, and i like the fact that i dont have to wait to discover a mistake happened, it is reported the moment i walk through the door, it might sound military style but kids need a leash, you can choose to let yours free.
Am way over 18 but i have never sipped alcohol in my mum's house, its a rule and everyone follows it so as long as that child is my responsibility, certain things will happen my way.
My mum once spanked me for something i didnt do, and its only recently she apologized, does that mean i love her less, if anything when one becomes a parent you realize how hard it was for your parents, raising five kids, having a full-time job, rearing chicken, cows and having a mini garden.
Now you want to tell me having lots of money, getting your child a driver to drop her/him at Galleria/TRM with a bundle of money to go hang out with friends, that's showing love to your children?? Thats the freedom?
I cannot tell how bhang looks like at my age, my niece just joined campus and her roommates smoke it, yes times have really changed, who changed them?
I hear 'kwa akina nani wanakubaliwa kufanya hivi na vile' and my response has always been, 'you can go live with akina nani'
I will not expose my child to nonsense in the name of comformity, and this business of wanting to fit in is what makes those kids do stupid things, for instance how do parents dress nowadays?
As for @tycho comparing this to me trying to control my periods is insane, those are kids for heaven's sake. I worry for those generations i pray for my kids, and honestly i encourage people not to have children if one cannot be there for them physically. Where is the like button when you need it!! God have mercy. CLK, the ma'am, is right on this one, brother, very right. The weight of evidence by observation is overwhelmingly on her side.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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Muriel wrote:tycho wrote:kiterunner wrote:the old churches like Catholic, AIC, Presbyterian, Methodist, SDA.... run churches, schools, universities ..... that benefit society directly. The mavunos of this world collect more mbegu than the oldschool churches per capita. Someone show me something practical they do for society besides 'saving' your soul from darkness and promising you never ending wealth, promotion and cures for everything These mavuno pastors were educated in the traditional schools. Then it is most unfortunate that they broke away. The other day someone here was talking that it is alright for a pastor to leave his church and go found his own if he cant get along with the other members. 'His career' was the term he used. Well, they must be business then. It's always about business even in the traditional churches otherwise how would the pastors even think of careers?
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 9/19/2011 Posts: 1,694
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 Sawa "mangod" or whichever hat you have on today!
“People will believe a big lie sooner than a little one, and if you repeat it frequently enough, people will sooner or later believe it.” ― Walter C. Langer
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Rank: Member Joined: 11/19/2009 Posts: 3,142
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tycho wrote:Muriel wrote:tycho wrote:kiterunner wrote:the old churches like Catholic, AIC, Presbyterian, Methodist, SDA.... run churches, schools, universities ..... that benefit society directly. The mavunos of this world collect more mbegu than the oldschool churches per capita. Someone show me something practical they do for society besides 'saving' your soul from darkness and promising you never ending wealth, promotion and cures for everything These mavuno pastors were educated in the traditional schools. Then it is most unfortunate that they broke away. The other day someone here was talking that it is alright for a pastor to leave his church and go found his own if he cant get along with the other members. 'His career' was the term he used. Well, they must be business then. It's always about business even in the traditional churches otherwise how would the pastors even think of careers? Business as in 'cha-ching' cash. You know, profits.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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Muriel wrote:tycho wrote:Kratos wrote:CLK wrote:@tycho, am not sure you are a parent, i am one, and whoever i parent even for a day (read nieces, nephews and younger cousins), there will always be rules of the day, my child goes to a school where the teachers spank them, ofcourse it will not be the same as what i went through but i dont mind it, and i have rules and regulations in my house, the difference between my spanking my child and my mum spanking me is, the child knows beforehand what to expect if she broke any of the rules set, and i like the fact that i dont have to wait to discover a mistake happened, it is reported the moment i walk through the door, it might sound military style but kids need a leash, you can choose to let yours free.
Am way over 18 but i have never sipped alcohol in my mum's house, its a rule and everyone follows it so as long as that child is my responsibility, certain things will happen my way.
My mum once spanked me for something i didnt do, and its only recently she apologized, does that mean i love her less, if anything when one becomes a parent you realize how hard it was for your parents, raising five kids, having a full-time job, rearing chicken, cows and having a mini garden.
Now you want to tell me having lots of money, getting your child a driver to drop her/him at Galleria/TRM with a bundle of money to go hang out with friends, that's showing love to your children?? Thats the freedom?
I cannot tell how bhang looks like at my age, my niece just joined campus and her roommates smoke it, yes times have really changed, who changed them?
I hear 'kwa akina nani wanakubaliwa kufanya hivi na vile' and my response has always been, 'you can go live with akina nani'
I will not expose my child to nonsense in the name of comformity, and this business of wanting to fit in is what makes those kids do stupid things, for instance how do parents dress nowadays?
As for @tycho comparing this to me trying to control my periods is insane, those are kids for heaven's sake. I worry for those generations i pray for my kids, and honestly i encourage people not to have children if one cannot be there for them physically. Where is the like button when you need it!! God have mercy. CLK, the ma'am, is right on this one, brother, very right. The weight of evidence by observation is overwhelmingly on her side. Not true. Little evidence there. You can show me where it is.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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Muriel wrote:tycho wrote:Muriel wrote:tycho wrote:kiterunner wrote:the old churches like Catholic, AIC, Presbyterian, Methodist, SDA.... run churches, schools, universities ..... that benefit society directly. The mavunos of this world collect more mbegu than the oldschool churches per capita. Someone show me something practical they do for society besides 'saving' your soul from darkness and promising you never ending wealth, promotion and cures for everything These mavuno pastors were educated in the traditional schools. Then it is most unfortunate that they broke away. The other day someone here was talking that it is alright for a pastor to leave his church and go found his own if he cant get along with the other members. 'His career' was the term he used. Well, they must be business then. It's always about business even in the traditional churches otherwise how would the pastors even think of careers? Business as in 'cha-ching' cash. You know, profits. Yes. Cash. Power.
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/1/2009 Posts: 846
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tycho wrote:Kratos wrote:tycho wrote:Kratos wrote:CLK wrote:@tycho, am not sure you are a parent, i am one, and whoever i parent even for a day (read nieces, nephews and younger cousins), there will always be rules of the day, my child goes to a school where the teachers spank them, ofcourse it will not be the same as what i went through but i dont mind it, and i have rules and regulations in my house, the difference between my spanking my child and my mum spanking me is, the child knows beforehand what to expect if she broke any of the rules set, and i like the fact that i dont have to wait to discover a mistake happened, it is reported the moment i walk through the door, it might sound military style but kids need a leash, you can choose to let yours free.
Am way over 18 but i have never sipped alcohol in my mum's house, its a rule and everyone follows it so as long as that child is my responsibility, certain things will happen my way.
My mum once spanked me for something i didnt do, and its only recently she apologized, does that mean i love her less, if anything when one becomes a parent you realize how hard it was for your parents, raising five kids, having a full-time job, rearing chicken, cows and having a mini garden.
Now you want to tell me having lots of money, getting your child a driver to drop her/him at Galleria/TRM with a bundle of money to go hang out with friends, that's showing love to your children?? Thats the freedom?
I cannot tell how bhang looks like at my age, my niece just joined campus and her roommates smoke it, yes times have really changed, who changed them?
I hear 'kwa akina nani wanakubaliwa kufanya hivi na vile' and my response has always been, 'you can go live with akina nani'
I will not expose my child to nonsense in the name of comformity, and this business of wanting to fit in is what makes those kids do stupid things, for instance how do parents dress nowadays?
As for @tycho comparing this to me trying to control my periods is insane, those are kids for heaven's sake. I worry for those generations i pray for my kids, and honestly i encourage people not to have children if one cannot be there for them physically. Where is the like button when you need it!! God have mercy. On you Yes. For suffering hypocrites and liars. @tycho, are you a parent? I hope you are not trying to insinuate that its wrong for us(me) to callout bad behaviour in teenagers unless i have removed the log in my eye? Difference is, a child at that age has no idea what he/she is getting into. when i can take care of myself, my child's problems become mine.
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Rank: Member Joined: 11/19/2009 Posts: 3,142
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tycho wrote:Muriel wrote:tycho wrote:Muriel wrote:tycho wrote:kiterunner wrote:the old churches like Catholic, AIC, Presbyterian, Methodist, SDA.... run churches, schools, universities ..... that benefit society directly. The mavunos of this world collect more mbegu than the oldschool churches per capita. Someone show me something practical they do for society besides 'saving' your soul from darkness and promising you never ending wealth, promotion and cures for everything These mavuno pastors were educated in the traditional schools. Then it is most unfortunate that they broke away. The other day someone here was talking that it is alright for a pastor to leave his church and go found his own if he cant get along with the other members. 'His career' was the term he used. Well, they must be business then. It's always about business even in the traditional churches otherwise how would the pastors even think of careers? Business as in 'cha-ching' cash. You know, profits. Yes. Cash. Power. To mavuno.
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/1/2009 Posts: 846
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tycho wrote:Muriel wrote:tycho wrote:Kratos wrote:CLK wrote:@tycho, am not sure you are a parent, i am one, and whoever i parent even for a day (read nieces, nephews and younger cousins), there will always be rules of the day, my child goes to a school where the teachers spank them, ofcourse it will not be the same as what i went through but i dont mind it, and i have rules and regulations in my house, the difference between my spanking my child and my mum spanking me is, the child knows beforehand what to expect if she broke any of the rules set, and i like the fact that i dont have to wait to discover a mistake happened, it is reported the moment i walk through the door, it might sound military style but kids need a leash, you can choose to let yours free.
Am way over 18 but i have never sipped alcohol in my mum's house, its a rule and everyone follows it so as long as that child is my responsibility, certain things will happen my way.
My mum once spanked me for something i didnt do, and its only recently she apologized, does that mean i love her less, if anything when one becomes a parent you realize how hard it was for your parents, raising five kids, having a full-time job, rearing chicken, cows and having a mini garden.
Now you want to tell me having lots of money, getting your child a driver to drop her/him at Galleria/TRM with a bundle of money to go hang out with friends, that's showing love to your children?? Thats the freedom?
I cannot tell how bhang looks like at my age, my niece just joined campus and her roommates smoke it, yes times have really changed, who changed them?
I hear 'kwa akina nani wanakubaliwa kufanya hivi na vile' and my response has always been, 'you can go live with akina nani'
I will not expose my child to nonsense in the name of comformity, and this business of wanting to fit in is what makes those kids do stupid things, for instance how do parents dress nowadays?
As for @tycho comparing this to me trying to control my periods is insane, those are kids for heaven's sake. I worry for those generations i pray for my kids, and honestly i encourage people not to have children if one cannot be there for them physically. Where is the like button when you need it!! God have mercy. CLK, the ma'am, is right on this one, brother, very right. The weight of evidence by observation is overwhelmingly on her side. Not true. Little evidence there. You can show me where it is. Bado unaishi Japan? and i assume hakuna tycholet huko inje, atleast one you interact with often.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/17/2008 Posts: 23,365 Location: Nairobi
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In Tycho's world everything goes.....I wish you @CLK the best!!! ..."Wewe ni mtu mdogo sana....na mwenye amekuandika pia ni mtu mdogo sana!".
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Rank: Member Joined: 11/19/2009 Posts: 3,142
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CLK wrote:tycho wrote:Muriel wrote:tycho wrote:Kratos wrote:CLK wrote:@tycho, am not sure you are a parent, i am one, and whoever i parent even for a day (read nieces, nephews and younger cousins), there will always be rules of the day, my child goes to a school where the teachers spank them, ofcourse it will not be the same as what i went through but i dont mind it, and i have rules and regulations in my house, the difference between my spanking my child and my mum spanking me is, the child knows beforehand what to expect if she broke any of the rules set, and i like the fact that i dont have to wait to discover a mistake happened, it is reported the moment i walk through the door, it might sound military style but kids need a leash, you can choose to let yours free.
Am way over 18 but i have never sipped alcohol in my mum's house, its a rule and everyone follows it so as long as that child is my responsibility, certain things will happen my way.
My mum once spanked me for something i didnt do, and its only recently she apologized, does that mean i love her less, if anything when one becomes a parent you realize how hard it was for your parents, raising five kids, having a full-time job, rearing chicken, cows and having a mini garden.
Now you want to tell me having lots of money, getting your child a driver to drop her/him at Galleria/TRM with a bundle of money to go hang out with friends, that's showing love to your children?? Thats the freedom?
I cannot tell how bhang looks like at my age, my niece just joined campus and her roommates smoke it, yes times have really changed, who changed them?
I hear 'kwa akina nani wanakubaliwa kufanya hivi na vile' and my response has always been, 'you can go live with akina nani'
I will not expose my child to nonsense in the name of comformity, and this business of wanting to fit in is what makes those kids do stupid things, for instance how do parents dress nowadays?
As for @tycho comparing this to me trying to control my periods is insane, those are kids for heaven's sake. I worry for those generations i pray for my kids, and honestly i encourage people not to have children if one cannot be there for them physically. Where is the like button when you need it!! God have mercy. CLK, the ma'am, is right on this one, brother, very right. The weight of evidence by observation is overwhelmingly on her side. Not true. Little evidence there. You can show me where it is. Bado unaishi Japan? and i assume hakuna tycholet huko inje, atleast one you interact with often. Yes. Tycho has not observed. Yet. Observe, brother, observe.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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CLK wrote:tycho wrote:Muriel wrote:tycho wrote:Kratos wrote:CLK wrote:@tycho, am not sure you are a parent, i am one, and whoever i parent even for a day (read nieces, nephews and younger cousins), there will always be rules of the day, my child goes to a school where the teachers spank them, ofcourse it will not be the same as what i went through but i dont mind it, and i have rules and regulations in my house, the difference between my spanking my child and my mum spanking me is, the child knows beforehand what to expect if she broke any of the rules set, and i like the fact that i dont have to wait to discover a mistake happened, it is reported the moment i walk through the door, it might sound military style but kids need a leash, you can choose to let yours free.
Am way over 18 but i have never sipped alcohol in my mum's house, its a rule and everyone follows it so as long as that child is my responsibility, certain things will happen my way.
My mum once spanked me for something i didnt do, and its only recently she apologized, does that mean i love her less, if anything when one becomes a parent you realize how hard it was for your parents, raising five kids, having a full-time job, rearing chicken, cows and having a mini garden.
Now you want to tell me having lots of money, getting your child a driver to drop her/him at Galleria/TRM with a bundle of money to go hang out with friends, that's showing love to your children?? Thats the freedom?
I cannot tell how bhang looks like at my age, my niece just joined campus and her roommates smoke it, yes times have really changed, who changed them?
I hear 'kwa akina nani wanakubaliwa kufanya hivi na vile' and my response has always been, 'you can go live with akina nani'
I will not expose my child to nonsense in the name of comformity, and this business of wanting to fit in is what makes those kids do stupid things, for instance how do parents dress nowadays?
As for @tycho comparing this to me trying to control my periods is insane, those are kids for heaven's sake. I worry for those generations i pray for my kids, and honestly i encourage people not to have children if one cannot be there for them physically. Where is the like button when you need it!! God have mercy. CLK, the ma'am, is right on this one, brother, very right. The weight of evidence by observation is overwhelmingly on her side. Not true. Little evidence there. You can show me where it is. Bado unaishi Japan? and i assume hakuna tycholet huko inje, atleast one you interact with often. Once again you prove my point. You have hardly given your opinion due consideration.
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