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NKT!!!!!!!!!

Haiiiiya! My neighbour, a single mum wants to take her son for circumcision over the coming holidays. By herself!

Single mums raising sons, please find a trusted male 'uncle' for your sons and most preferably not your current boyfriend. His biological father would be perfect if it is the two of you who kosanad but he still loves the kids.

I heard that by 2030, over 50% of young adults between 19-24 yrs will have been raised in single mother homes. I personally think that will not be good for our society and the boys especially. I know there're many dead beats but there're also those who made the decision to beat the biological clock.

It's a simple minor surgery. Perhaps she only needs a taxi on the day of the surgery.

@wukan do you really know what circumcision is? Circumcision is a complex cultural transitional ritual of which the cut is just but evidence or a mark that you have undergone the ritual. That is why during the ritual individuals are isolated for some time and transitioned physically (the cut), mentally and emotionally (via lectures by elders), so that they can become responsible members of the community.

Therefore it's utter nonsense for you to suggest that a mother hires a taxi and takes the boy for "a minor surgery" since the boy will only end up "cut" but not circumcised. FYI women are never involved in male circumcision matters apart from cooking for the initiates.

Any wazua lady who can give @hardwood wood's a handjob or blowjob?

If there is no one to help, at least nowadays there are youth circumcision camps run by churches and welfare associations and she could enroll the boy in one. Costs about 15k and the boy will go back home a real man who has undergone the ritual and well schooled in the ways of his people.

FYI it is a taboo for a mother to take her son for circumcision. Also mothers and women never handle initiates. Surely there must be at least one man in that woman's clan or a male friend who can guide her or help her on these matters.

Wow, you put a bow on it

Modernisation my foot,matters concerning male initiation women shouldn't handle whether modern day men are responsible or not. Ndio watu wanashikwa na kitusi.

You can be circumcised and advised and choose to ignore it -turning into an irresponsible man. It doesn't make the rite or the advice any less important.
You cannot prescribe to people what they can do with their children, only offer advice. The gist is if there is a close male relative or acquaintance, the single mum would do well to ask for their guidance/allow them to steer this matter. If there is no responsible man about who can assist then life has to continue, doesn't it?
What I don't get is why many women and male uber-modernists have to thump their bony chests regarding matters which are prima facie in the male domain. Any suggestions to seek advice or tread the well-worn path are met with scorn and mouth-frothing histrionics. Reverse the parenting role and different scenarios (say periods) and you would never find men assuming they know better than their female peers or relatives regarding the emotions or sanitary accessorizing that go with it.