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Have weddings been commercialized??
tkzee
#1 Posted : Saturday, August 21, 2010 11:31:21 AM
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After having attended one of my friends wedding about a month ago am almost having second thoughts about the whole wedding thing.I just wouldn't understand how a milli would be spent like that.Its one thing if you can afford it but another thing if it leaves you in staggering debts.
Call it old school but i'd rather have a ''come we stay'' for now,than throw a big wedding that leaves mi ''unhappily ever after.''
''i can calculate the motion of heavenly bodies,but not the madness of people''-Isaac Newton
sparkly
#2 Posted : Saturday, August 21, 2010 11:37:48 AM
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@tk wedding is your mama's thingie. Akiamua kwisha maneno. As a man you just show up, just like an accessory.
Life is short. Live passionately.
famooz
#3 Posted : Saturday, August 21, 2010 4:47:23 PM
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simonkabz
#4 Posted : Saturday, August 21, 2010 10:38:49 PM
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At times I imagine I aint normal. How can a dude spend more than he owns on a weddo? Am I too old sch or wot? Am left wondering ni mimi wasimu ama ni wao....n they r so many...maybe ni mimi LOL!
TULIA.........UFUNZWE!
Njung'e
#5 Posted : Sunday, August 22, 2010 12:47:01 PM
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@sparkly is very right.Women get it,men don't!....but at the end,unless you are out to show off,you can decide how cheap your wedding should be.I have witnessed two buddies of mine in a civil marriage and all it took was fuel for four cars,two gold rings and dinner for about 15 people.100K would be absolutely on the outside.
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quicksand
#6 Posted : Monday, August 23, 2010 12:19:59 PM
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Your lady really has to be on your wavelength for a civil or AG wedding to work. Otherwise more than once some jamaa has been forced to spend more at the chic's insistence so that her wedding can be grander than her friend's
kingfisher
#7 Posted : Monday, August 23, 2010 1:49:42 PM
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Those kind of men are idiots, full stop.
When I have money, I get rid of it quickly, lest it find a way into my heart.
2012
#8 Posted : Monday, August 23, 2010 5:28:14 PM
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tkzee wrote:
After having attended one of my friends wedding about a month ago am almost having second thoughts about the whole wedding thing.I just wouldn't understand how a milli would be spent like that.Its one thing if you can afford it but another thing if it leaves you in staggering debts.
Call it old school but i'd rather have a ''come we stay'' for now,than throw a big wedding that leaves mi ''unhappily ever after.''


Stop being a cheap skate. Look for money and give your woman her special day. Don't let her spend her years with you in shame and fear since nothing binds you. If things are that bad just go to the AG's and do a luncheon or dinner after with friends and family.

BBI will solve it
:)
msotoville
#9 Posted : Monday, August 23, 2010 9:45:33 PM
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2012 wrote:

Stop being a cheap skate. Look for money and give your woman her special day. Don't let her spend her years with you in shame and fear since nothing binds you. If things are that bad just go to the AG's and do a luncheon or dinner after with friends and family.


Weeeh, 2012. Stop misleading Wazuerians.

Why blow 500k on a ceremony that lasts one day and will probably usher you into a life of auctioneers, late rent payment, loan sharks and abject misery?

In 90% of the cases, the bride and groom are broke - and they pass on the stress to family and friends; try mentioning the word "pre-wedding" and all the contacts on your phone-book will be unreachable before you can say mteja.

I spent 4k on a cheap jacket, the marriage license, burgers, fries and drinks at Wimpy for me, wifey, the witnesses ad a couple of buddies - that was more than a decade ago...NA BADO TUKO!!!

A fancy wedding doesn't always translate into a happy marriage. The problem with Kenyans is what we Kyuk's call mûigerekanio - which is loosely translated to "trying to keep up with the Jones's".
So nice that its nasty, so bangin' its busting,
So slick that its sick, so dope its disgusting!
2012
#10 Posted : Tuesday, August 24, 2010 11:17:56 AM
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msotoville wrote:
Weeeh, 2012. Stop misleading Wazuerians.

Why blow 500k on a ceremony that lasts one day and will probably usher you into a life of auctioneers, late rent payment, loan sharks and abject misery?


Listen my friend, the only time I saw emergency weddings was in the movies and aliens fighting for green cards. You can plan to do your wedding even 1 or two years after. There really is no excuse.

BBI will solve it
:)
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