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Would You Bail Out Your Spouse Involved In Fraud?
Intelligentsia
#1 Posted : Tuesday, August 10, 2010 11:27:58 AM
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A most interesting thing unfolded the other day at one of our sister companies in TZ.
An investigation done revealed one of the staff (actually the wife)was found to have been involved in fraud where she stole co. & customer cash. She admitted and was summarily dismissed. The co. is proceeding to sue her to recover the cash, unless she pays up by some given time. We understand she approached her hubby to help her pay up, but at this stage no one else knows whether her hubby knew or not, or if he was indirectly involved in her fraud. But the Co. of cos doesnt care about him and just want its cash back.

Would you assist her if you were the hubby, & esp. if you never knew what she was upto or where she spent the cash?
Ladies, if it was the other way round would you bail out your man?

Magigi
#2 Posted : Tuesday, August 10, 2010 11:31:45 AM
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...if she did not let me know about her thieving habits, I wonder what other things she has hidden from me!!!
...Mambo ingine unaachia katiba mpya iangalie!!!
...but if I knew abot it, regardless of how she spent the money, I would definitely help.
...Uwazi katika ndoa is KEY...
dossy7
#3 Posted : Tuesday, August 10, 2010 11:40:15 AM
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i think thats why when people take vows it goes like for better or for worse for richer or for poor.
Definately i will help and you may never know maybe the money was well spent in the family regardless of whether you knew about the fraud or not
Kenya ni yetu sisi sote
Njung'e
#4 Posted : Tuesday, August 10, 2010 11:47:12 AM
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Well said Dossy.....and if you can't,unaomba serikali ikusaidie...lol.
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XSK
#5 Posted : Tuesday, August 10, 2010 12:27:34 PM
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Intelligentsia wrote:
A most interesting thing unfolded the other day at one of our sister companies in TZ.
An investigation done revealed one of the staff (actually the wife)was found to have been involved in fraud where she stole co. & customer cash. She admitted and was summarily dismissed. The co. is proceeding to sue her to recover the cash, unless she pays up by some given time. We understand she approached her hubby to help her pay up, but at this stage no one else knows whether her hubby knew or not, or if he was indirectly involved in her fraud. But the Co. of cos doesnt care about him and just want its cash back.

Would you assist her if you were the hubby, & esp. if you never knew what she was upto or where she spent the cash?
Ladies, if it was the other way round would you bail out your man?




@intelligentsia

This "sounds" like the morning show at the Local FM stations. Could it be?
You will know that you have arrived when money and time are not mutually exclusive "events" in you life!
Intelligentsia
#6 Posted : Tuesday, August 10, 2010 12:43:14 PM
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@XSK, no. It is very much a real life case in Dar.
N don't listen to those morning shows too much, esp as they dont bring a relationship expert at the end to give a professional opinion...
XSK
#7 Posted : Tuesday, August 10, 2010 1:02:01 PM
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Intelligentsia wrote:
@XSK, no. It is very much a real life case in Dar.
N don't listen to those morning shows too much, esp as they dont bring a relationship expert at the end to give a professional opinion...


smile

If i knew and was involved in spending the money i would definitely help.
You will know that you have arrived when money and time are not mutually exclusive "events" in you life!
bird_man
#8 Posted : Tuesday, August 10, 2010 1:25:26 PM
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Eh...hizi fm!Anyway,you should simply take your spouse to a rehab and give him/her a loan to clear the debt he/she "kulad".
Formally employed people often live their employers' dream & forget about their own.
McReggae
#9 Posted : Tuesday, August 10, 2010 1:42:07 PM
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As Dossy put it,
for better or for worse, I will definitely help!!!!
..."Wewe ni mtu mdogo sana....na mwenye amekuandika pia ni mtu mdogo sana!".
atiriri
#10 Posted : Tuesday, August 10, 2010 3:56:25 PM
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obvious. I will die for her. The mother of my children.

"The only way to show love to your children is by loving their mother"
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