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sitaki.kujulikana
#1 Posted : Thursday, May 26, 2016 3:13:34 PM
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All birth records to show the father's name

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She said every child has a right to have the name of his or her father on the birth certificate.

The consent of the father is not required as has been the case.
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Kratos
#2 Posted : Thursday, May 26, 2016 3:29:16 PM
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sitaki.kujulikana wrote:
All birth records to show the father's name

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She said every child has a right to have the name of his or her father on the birth certificate.

The consent of the father is not required as has been the case.


So basically a lady can choose who the father is without the "fathers" consent? d'oh!

“People will believe a big lie sooner than a little one, and if you repeat it frequently enough, people will sooner or later believe it.” ― Walter C. Langer
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PeterReborn
#3 Posted : Thursday, May 26, 2016 3:44:57 PM
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Forceful fatherhood? Seriously!!! Who can force anyone to become a father? Does anyone force you to land on an airport?
This issue is a non issue.
What should e enforced is the law that ensures that every man who sires a child must provide for that child. It is rather unfortunate that the society is encouraging irresponsibility by men who are taking care of their children.
Look at all the street kids in Nairobi. Who are their fathers?
Consistency is better than intensity
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Njung'e
#4 Posted : Thursday, May 26, 2016 4:00:16 PM
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Badly thought rule. If it has to be, it will torment single mothers who harbour hopes of being married. Now, you do not want to marry a girl who has a child with a name of another man.
Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.
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PeterReborn
#5 Posted : Thursday, May 26, 2016 4:02:47 PM
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Njung'e wrote:
Badly thought rule. If it has to be, it will torment single mothers who harbour hopes of being married. Now, you do not want to marry a girl who has a child with a name of another man.

Doesn't that man already know that the child belongs to another man? The name can also be changed to the new man.
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Othelo
#6 Posted : Thursday, May 26, 2016 4:05:40 PM
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@swenani Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly
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Swenani
#7 Posted : Thursday, May 26, 2016 4:08:13 PM
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Ati forceful fatherhood? Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly

@sitaki.kujilikana...utajulikana tu!
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PeterReborn
#8 Posted : Thursday, May 26, 2016 4:09:00 PM
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Swenani wrote:
Ati forceful fatherhood? Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly

@sitaki.kujilikana...utajulikana tu!

Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly
Consistency is better than intensity
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Njung'e
#9 Posted : Thursday, May 26, 2016 4:14:19 PM
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PeterReborn wrote:
Njung'e wrote:
Badly thought rule. If it has to be, it will torment single mothers who harbour hopes of being married. Now, you do not want to marry a girl who has a child with a name of another man.

Doesn't that man already know that the child belongs to another man? The name can also be changed to the new man.


Does changing the name of the father to that of the other man make the new man the father? and what would be the point of it from the beggining other than torturing the soul of a young mind?
Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.
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PeterReborn
#10 Posted : Thursday, May 26, 2016 4:25:23 PM
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Njung'e wrote:
PeterReborn wrote:
Njung'e wrote:
Badly thought rule. If it has to be, it will torment single mothers who harbour hopes of being married. Now, you do not want to marry a girl who has a child with a name of another man.

Doesn't that man already know that the child belongs to another man? The name can also be changed to the new man.


Does changing the name of the father to that of the other man make the new man the father? and what would be the point of it from the beggining other than torturing the soul of a young mind?

The child is already tortured when he uses the name of the mother. He is bullied and ridiculed because ako na jina ya umama because his name betrays him.He is treated as a special child because he has a womanly name.
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