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Jus Blazin
#1 Posted : Wednesday, January 19, 2011 3:04:19 PM
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Do you have to be single to be dating someone else? Why do people find it wrong kuchapana bafu? Must you be having issues with your current boo to warrant break up, so that you can go for the next dude? What if this new person you meet is actually the right/best person for you, and for that reason you met, would you let that opportunity pass because you are hooked up?

(My dad alichapwa bafu. Thank God! Am alive today because of that).

Disclaimer: Am not talking about people already married.
Luck is when Preparation meets Opportunity. ~ Lucius Annaeus Seneca
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Impunity
#2 Posted : Wednesday, January 19, 2011 3:08:42 PM
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Kuchapwa bafu?

Me and @Njung'e are lost kijana, please ongea lugha inayofahamika.
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You know you've made it when you get a parking space for your yatcht.
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Wendz
#3 Posted : Wednesday, January 19, 2011 3:10:52 PM
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Everyday something reminds me how old i have become.... sasa hii "kuchapa bafu, kuchapwa bafu" ndio nini sasa? i have triiiiieeeeed to get it from the context lakini haiingii especially coz of the last statement.
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dossy7
#4 Posted : Wednesday, January 19, 2011 3:12:45 PM
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Impunity wrote:
Kuchapwa bafu?

Me and @Njung'e are lost kijana, please ongea lugha inayofahamika.


@User kuchapwa bafu means mtu ameponyoka na mpenzi wako in these context
Kenya ni yetu sisi sote
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kizee1
#5 Posted : Wednesday, January 19, 2011 3:12:47 PM
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kuchapwa bafu ni kuoshwa
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wanyuru
#6 Posted : Wednesday, January 19, 2011 3:12:54 PM
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Jus Blazin wrote:
Do you have to be single to be dating someone else? Why do people find it wrong kuchapana bafu? Must you be having issues with your current boo to warrant break up, so that you can go for the next dude? What if this new person you meet is actually the right/best person for you, and for that reason you met, would you let that opportunity pass because you are hooked up?

(My dad alichapwa bafu. Thank God! Am alive today because of that).

Disclaimer: Am not talking about people already married.


landing your plane on ur brother's or buddy's airstrip is very wrong!Shame on you
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Impunity
#7 Posted : Wednesday, January 19, 2011 3:18:06 PM
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dossy7 wrote:
Impunity wrote:
Kuchapwa bafu?

Me and @Njung'e are lost kijana, please ongea lugha inayofahamika.


@User kuchapwa bafu means mtu ameponyoka na mpenzi wako in these context


I'm nearing my pension...
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You know you've made it when you get a parking space for your yatcht.
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ValerieLemaiyan
#8 Posted : Wednesday, January 19, 2011 3:18:17 PM
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Kuchapwa bafu......simply cheated on
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Jus Blazin
#9 Posted : Wednesday, January 19, 2011 3:30:50 PM
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Jus Blazin wrote:
Do you have to be single to be dating someone else? Why do people find it wrong kuchapana bafu? Must you be having issues with your current boo to warrant break up, so that you can go for the next dude? What if this new person you meet is actually the right/best person for you, and for that reason you met, would you let that opportunity pass because you are hooked up?

(My dad alichapwa bafu. (My dad was going out with some mama kitambo when he was young. The chic got swept off her feet by some dude, and my dad akaachwa pap!) Thank God! Am alive today because of that).

Disclaimer: Am not talking about people already married. (My query focuses on people who are single-that is- not married)

Apologies to those who never understood this quite old term. But having known what it means, what do you think?

You could be in a wrong relationship, dont you think?
Luck is when Preparation meets Opportunity. ~ Lucius Annaeus Seneca
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Gangi
#10 Posted : Wednesday, January 19, 2011 4:05:30 PM
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I believe its not wrong at all. It could actually be a blessing in disguise for the person caught in the middle. Your example of your dad is a casing point. We can never know where the wind will blow us to. IMHO, yes, you can actually date when you are not single. The only tricky bit is spending too much time thinking, hence wasting someone else's time. Like you said, you may meet your right person, when you are going out with someone else.

I'm happy to join and be part of Wazua.
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