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Would You Bail Out Your Spouse Involved In Fraud?
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Wendz
#11 Posted : Tuesday, August 10, 2010 3:58:42 PM
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Not that i condone the act of 'thuggery' but definitely i will bail him out and of course even try covering it up abit (aliwekelewa etc)to save his face from our friends and family .
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dossy7
#12 Posted : Tuesday, August 10, 2010 4:49:17 PM
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atiriri wrote:
obvious. I will die for her. The mother of my children.

"The only way to show love to your children is by loving their mother"


Nicely put atiriri
Kenya ni yetu sisi sote
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atiriri
#13 Posted : Tuesday, August 10, 2010 4:52:26 PM
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@Dossy7

Thank you for the comment
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nostoppingthis
#14 Posted : Tuesday, August 10, 2010 5:13:53 PM
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Assuming all of you have bailed out your other half...what trust level both of you have (hiyo ni kama the incident surprised you)...what other thing is hidden from you by him/her?
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doubtfire
#15 Posted : Tuesday, August 10, 2010 10:21:27 PM
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bail her for what? fraud? Guys remember when you checked your wallet and 2K you had planned for was no longer your property,Guess you now know who to askApplause

she might make it a habit once you help.well you can assist (lipa kitu kidogo na yeye aongeze)
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aemathenge
#16 Posted : Wednesday, August 11, 2010 2:02:16 AM
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Of course I would bail her out. Hide and or destroy evidence, bribe the investigating internal auditor, external auditor, man, the whole nine yards. She is (would) be my better half wouldn't she?

But Intel, in this case, I take it or put it to you that your wife defrauded. What did you do?

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Intelligentsia
#17 Posted : Wednesday, August 11, 2010 11:53:15 AM
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aemathenge wrote:
Of course I would bail her out. Hide and or destroy evidence, bribe the investigating internal auditor, external auditor, man, the whole nine yards. She is (would) be my better half wouldn't she?

But Intel, in this case, I take it or put it to you that your wife defrauded. What did you do?



mahegoat, am a direct person - I don't hide behind 'my friend,' or I know someone who...
And if it is my wife she would have been bailed out quickly, quietly, permanently...wouldn't even have reached wazua!!
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My 2 cents
#18 Posted : Wednesday, August 11, 2010 3:45:11 PM
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Intelligentsia wrote:
A most interesting thing unfolded the other day at one of our sister companies in TZ.
An investigation done revealed one of the staff (actually the wife)was found to have been involved in fraud where she stole co. & customer cash. She admitted and was summarily dismissed. The co. is proceeding to sue her to recover the cash, unless she pays up by some given time. We understand she approached her hubby to help her pay up, but at this stage no one else knows whether her hubby knew or not, or if he was indirectly involved in her fraud. But the Co. of cos doesnt care about him and just want its cash back.

Would you assist her if you were the hubby, & esp. if you never knew what she was upto or where she spent the cash?
Ladies, if it was the other way round would you bail out your man?

There is a reason why you say those vows on the day you get married. Did you not swear before the congregation 'for better or for worse'......I would say go ahead and bail her out. And then after that sort out the internal issues together. DO NOT be on the other side with all the other people castigating your wife. You do not approve, that is a given, but work on these issues privately with her.
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seeker*
#19 Posted : Wednesday, August 11, 2010 4:29:42 PM
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i would stand by provided he gives valid reasons of how the money was spent.if no explanation is forthcoming i would wonder about the state of our marriage if he hid something so serious.
Don't fight a battle if you gain nothing by winning.” Erwin Rommel
When I was a child, I spoke like a child, thought like a child, and reasoned like a child. When I became an adult, I no longer used childish ways.
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