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Wendz
#31 Posted : Thursday, July 29, 2010 2:30:03 PM
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John Kamau wrote:
Thank you wendz.
You have spoken very well. How old are you if I may ask?


I turned 46 in May this year.

@Mpenzi

Well, IMO, there i no definate right age difference because different people mature differently but i bet 14 years difference you are in different generations and your thinking is very different. Well, if the lady is, say not more than 5 years, you will most likely be talking at the same level, i bet that can be considered right, but that is my opinion. Again, let me say, it also depends with the maturity(not in year terms) of the lady in question.
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Impunity
#32 Posted : Thursday, July 29, 2010 2:31:14 PM
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@Kamau,
Wendz is 45...
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conos
#33 Posted : Thursday, July 29, 2010 5:53:36 PM
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Pray kamau! no history of courtship????
kama ako hivyo wat abt mother-in-law??
u better strategise an early,smart exit plan now u r in frying pan b4 u get into fire! Ngai baba Sad
ukiona choo kwa ndoto usiingie, ni mtego!
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2012
#34 Posted : Thursday, July 29, 2010 6:07:45 PM
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John Kamau wrote:

My issue is, does the above mean that i will have to give her half of what I have.


This is the reason why men don't disclose their investments to their wives.
But John you are lucky that all your properties are in your name and you don't have kids together. If I were you I'd sell them, convert the cash into dollars or euros and put in a confidential safety deposit box with one of the banks and go through with the divorce. She will never know.

BBI will solve it :)
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John Kamau
#35 Posted : Thursday, July 29, 2010 6:10:18 PM
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We get along very well with her Mother who almost my agemate. (about 4 - 5 years older) than me. She also knows her daughter is nasty. No father tho.

Anyway this was an post on the law which is digressing.
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Wendz
#36 Posted : Thursday, July 29, 2010 6:28:10 PM
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John Kamau wrote:
We get along very well with her Mother who almost my agemate. (about 4 - 5 years older) than me. She also knows her daughter is nasty. No father tho.

Anyway this was an post on the law which is digressing.


As in she got the daughter when she was 17 at most?

See, am even older than your mother-in-law........

But except not getting a baby, the gal doesnt seem to have any other issues... i thought that was your contentious issue? Plus, yo are the one who wants divorce, not her? so how did she become a gold-digger by the way? sema yote hapa....
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2012
#37 Posted : Thursday, July 29, 2010 6:45:32 PM
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Wendz wrote:
I turned 46 in May this year.


Atî kay!!
And all this time I thought you were a ka-spring chicken...smile


BBI will solve it :)
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MaichBlack
#38 Posted : Thursday, July 29, 2010 6:46:47 PM
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John Kamau wrote:
We get along very well with her Mother who almost my agemate. (about 4 - 5 years older) than me. She also knows her daughter is nasty. No father tho.

Anyway this was an post on the law which is digressing.

And the soap opera continues...

Next week... John Alehandro Kamau visits...
Never count on making a good sale. Have the purchase price be so attractive that even a mediocre sale gives good returns.
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Mwafrika31
#39 Posted : Thursday, July 29, 2010 7:39:47 PM
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John Kamau wrote:

Hi All

I make my humble contribution to this website to get your feedback on one issue I have been dealing with.

I married a 21yr old lady 2yrs ago. I am 35. AS always the 1st year was bliss but I got to see her true colours in the last year. Not only has she refused to work but she also refused to get kids (she is medically ok)

My issue is when by the time we got married I had bought a 5ac plot in Syokimau which is in my name. After we got married I took a mortquage in my name to buy the apt we live in. Now I want a divorce. My predicament is this new constitution.

CHAPTER FOUR - THE BILL OF RIGHTS
Section 45, says Parties to a marriage are entitled to equal rights at the time of the marriage, during the marriage and at the dissolution of the marriage.

My issue is, does the above mean that i will have to give her half of what I have.

This I foresee will be an problem issue for progressive men and women in future esp from gold diggers.


@ kamau

You married a gold digger, she sees you strictly as a meal ticket. You can retroactively sign a post nuptial agreement. But I don't understand, why get divorced when you can simply sell the apartment, disappear and get another female. I'm begining to see why you are in this mess, you must not be the loudest bird in the flock!
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youcan'tstopusnow
#40 Posted : Thursday, July 29, 2010 8:20:49 PM
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Dump the daughter and go after the mother. You'll then be her step dad. That will put her in her place. 2012, nice thinking with the safety deposit box. Were you ever to go through a divorce, inaonekana you would lose NOTHING
GOD BLESS YOUR LIFE
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