...hio ni kama ABC..
....sell that plot and put the money in your socks (which is an offence under the new CBK regulations)
.......take her to Mombasa to the cheapest hotel without aircon for a holiday.
......Give your brother the apartment key and move houses to Kayole.....Rent out the apartment.
...after coast,sell your car and start javelin with her....
.........and please do not try this at home.....get another 21 year old also dont follow my advice and sue me ! Goodluck and lets meet after

Weeeee Kizee!!!! Kwani you want to inherit the dude's mess?

@John K Msee wangu, Marriages with such an age diff tend to have major issues unless both partners are very committed. Both of you just never get to see things the same way. It may be best to just part ways. That said, just prepare to pay for your mistake as she will take some of your property with her on divorce. A smart lawyer may be able to help you ensure that the financial paid is minimal.

I am sure the issue may not be with me or her. She just refuses. She just wants to have fun.

Anyway, to say the truth I believe I married a gold digger. Looking back, her back ground was really modest and she was down to earth. Any of you guys (esp. Kizee) would have fallen for her. I know she met some mamas in our Apt block who have really poisoned her with lots of crap.

About the grounds of divorce, i dont know. Maybe Ill just separate.

Seroiusly whats the legal position according to this new constitution.

If you really really really need help, the answers above are sufficient to help you move to the next level.

JK
You have a serious problem.
And that problem is you, not her.
Pliz,pliz leave the Katiba out of your marriage mess.

I fail to understand how you can live with a 21yr old for 2 years and she fails to get pregnant if she's medically OK.

You have a story you are hiding and some flimsy excuses about mama's in apartment, ati she is refusing to have a baby, ati she's a gold digger etc.

What exactly is your problem with her?. Failing to get kids or refusing to work or what?. or mama's in your apartment spoiling her or Katiba?.