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Behind the wall of marriage
MaichBlack
#31 Posted : Thursday, July 15, 2010 6:12:01 PM
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This discussion reminds me of some quotable quotes:-

A dude was asked about about the secret to his long marriage and he said:
My wife and I eat out six days a week. She eats out on Mondays, Wednesdays & Fridays and I eat out on Tuesdays, Thursdays & Saturdays
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Person 1: My wife made me a millionaire.
Person 2: Oh, that's nice. What were you before you married her?
Person 1: A billionaire!!!
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And the one that carries the day...
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My wife and I were happy for 25 years........And then we met!!!
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Never count on making a good sale. Have the purchase price be so attractive that even a mediocre sale gives good returns.
dsgnplus
#32 Posted : Friday, July 16, 2010 10:38:22 AM
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Read Somewhere cant remember where that the perfect marriage is where the husband is deaf while the wife is blind.
On a serious note though I think present day couples have become intolerant of each other.There is too much brinkmanship from either side and the whole setup looks like the 'politics in kenya'.

It may seem uphill, or plain impossible but it really is possible to be in a happy marriage. Just Use Your Head.Pray
Alo
#33 Posted : Friday, July 16, 2010 11:27:15 AM
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I believe Marriage is what you make it. Putting God as the Head of the Marriage makes all the difference. Sorting your problems as a couple instead of involving outsiders is a plus point. Your wife is nagging? Sit her down and talk to her, tell her what you like or dislike, work on communication skills as a couple. The big cause of major problems in marriages right now is the too much involvement of "outsiders" and comparing ones marriage or lifestyle with someone's else. I believe in not letting our marital issues leave the bedroom door. Contain them within the walls of your bedroom. I know at times things may really be thick, but then the key is communication and prayer between the two. Change comes from within. If you feel your partner is the problem then maybe try looking at yourself first and change where you feel you also go wrong, then sit back and watch... "A family that prays together stays together."
"A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man should have to seek Him first to find her."
atiriri
#34 Posted : Friday, July 16, 2010 12:33:01 PM
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@ Aloo
I agree with you but again there are some couples out there who will never have time to sit down with the partner to discuss on anything. From what you have said i think attitude also matter a lot. How do you deal with the financial part?
bwenyenye
#35 Posted : Friday, July 16, 2010 1:38:29 PM
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Good People,

Let me start by saying that I believe in marriage.I am grateful for my spouse ( or is it spice) and would marry her again if I could.

Radio is full of lies.These guys must keep their shows on air or else they lose their jobs. Those call-ins are stage-managed! If you want to know about investing, then go to an investor! The same goes for marriage. Do not look for advise from guys who are even romoured to be sockets. Come to us who are married,let us talk and you watch. Yes we do fight but guess what, we end up better. Marriage would have ended eons ago if it was not that good.

For those guys who want to get married, 'watoto wazuri wapo. tena ndio wengi.
I Think Therefore I Am
Alo
#36 Posted : Friday, July 16, 2010 2:13:59 PM
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@atiriri,

As for my husband and i have no financial secrets, i know how his payslip looks like he knows mine, we draft our budgets together. We are very transparent with one another on all issues. No secrets among us (Wife & Hubby) . Outsiders know nothing about our issues which we have learnt to solve amicably. I still Insist on involving God in everything because we can't do anything on our own.
"A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man should have to seek Him first to find her."
MaichBlack
#37 Posted : Friday, July 16, 2010 2:32:19 PM
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Alo wrote:
...i know how his payslip looks like he knows mine...

River road wanaprint Degrees, title deeds, log books ni payslip tu?
Never count on making a good sale. Have the purchase price be so attractive that even a mediocre sale gives good returns.
jguru
#38 Posted : Friday, July 16, 2010 3:55:38 PM
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I think what breaks most marriages nowadays, is the wife "wanting to wear the trousers in the house". Domestic dramas lead to loss of respect between the wife and the husband. A lady needs to be a tad submissive to the gentleman for a marriage to survive.
Set out to correct the world's wrongs and you will most certainly wind up adding to them.
Ray
#39 Posted : Friday, July 16, 2010 4:27:03 PM
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MaichBlack wrote:
Alo wrote:
...i know how his payslip looks like he knows mine...

River road wanaprint Degrees, title deeds, log books ni payslip tu?


Stop sowing in doubts into her heart.Although it could be true.
Which payslip would you give your wife? The Original /Edited copy from River Road?
atiriri
#40 Posted : Friday, July 16, 2010 4:31:26 PM
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And the man should respect the lady of the house. I have seen cases where us men we invite the so called mistresses to our matrimonial bed when our wives are away. Or we bring them in the name of relatives in the house. Can trust still exist after the lady of the house has discovered?
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