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murchr		#41 Posted : Sunday, June 21, 2020 10:38:08 PM
Rank: Elder Joined: 2/26/2012 Posts: 15,980		Kama unazo and they are really in need, wapee. You know them better than we do "There are only two emotions in the market, hope & fear. The problem is you hope when you should fear & fear when you should hope: - Jesse Livermore .
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sparkly		#42 Posted : Monday, June 22, 2020 9:57:44 AM
Rank: Elder Joined: 9/23/2009 Posts: 8,083 Location: Enk are Nyirobi		murchr wrote: Kama unazo and they are really in need, wapee. You know them better than we do Sustenance is ok. But there is one who called demanding for a loan to start a business. She was bitter that whereas I have assisted other younger relas through school, I have never "helped" her. This is a married woman aged 37 who feels entitled to a loan from me. Life is short. Live passionately.
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Swenani		#43 Posted : Monday, June 22, 2020 11:25:11 AM
Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum		sparkly wrote: murchr wrote: Kama unazo and they are really in need, wapee. You know them better than we do Sustenance is ok. But there is one who called demanding for a loan to start a business. She was bitter that whereas I have assisted other younger relas through school, I have never "helped" her. This is a married woman aged 37 who feels entitled to a loan from me. If you do have, give out but don't squeeze yourself to give out. If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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kaka2za		#44 Posted : Monday, June 22, 2020 12:22:37 PM
Rank: Elder Joined: 10/3/2008 Posts: 4,058 Location: Gwitu		sparkly wrote: murchr wrote: Kama unazo and they are really in need, wapee. You know them better than we do Sustenance is ok. But there is one who called demanding for a loan to start a business. She was bitter that whereas I have assisted other younger relas through school, I have never "helped" her. This is a married woman aged 37 who feels entitled to a loan from me. Key word is ' entitlement' Truth forever on the scaffold Wrong forever on the throne (James Russell Rowell)
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kayhara		#45 Posted : Monday, June 22, 2020 1:52:57 PM
Rank: Veteran Joined: 5/5/2011 Posts: 1,059		some will find me repairing a fence or the outside toilet, sit next to me telling me about his problems he can't even think of kujipa kazi helping me, so what I now do is give the some manual work that needs to be done like clearing the drive way to the house from the road, or prunning the trees and arranging the branches to dry for firewood, only then can i give money based on the current daily wage yani ki-siku To Each His Own
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sqft		#46 Posted : Monday, June 22, 2020 5:31:06 PM
Rank: Veteran Joined: 1/10/2015 Posts: 961 Location: Kenya		You guys are mean. You happily spend thousands buying single malt whiskys to strangers at pubs but find it hard to give your relatives some petty cash. Someone has even confessed demanding back the 1k he gave his uncle. Isn't this asking for a curse? Proverbs 13:11 Dishonest money dwindles away, but whoever gathers money little by little makes it grow.
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Angelica _ann		#47 Posted : Monday, June 22, 2020 5:44:51 PM
Rank: Elder Joined: 12/7/2012 Posts: 11,935		sqft wrote: You guys are mean. You happily spend thousands buying single malt whiskys to strangers at pubs but find it hard to give your relatives some petty cash. Someone has even confessed demanding back the 1k he gave his uncle. Isn't this asking for a curse? True, I agree with you. Kwanza some strange random women are bought for booze and food, paid for uber plus given 2+++ thaos za kujishigilia nayo mpaka next time. In the business world, everyone is paid in two coins - cash and experience. Take the experience first; the cash will come later - H Geneen
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Swenani		#48 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2020 11:39:05 AM
Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum		Angelica _ann wrote: sqft wrote: You guys are mean. You happily spend thousands buying single malt whiskys to strangers at pubs but find it hard to give your relatives some petty cash. Someone has even confessed demanding back the 1k he gave his uncle. Isn't this asking for a curse? True, I agree with you. Kwanza some strange random women are bought for booze and food, paid for uber plus given 2+++ thaos za kujishigilia nayo mpaka next time. This is a simple cost benefit analysis. An uncle doesn't have an airport yet the strange women have airport. If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Mastermind		#49 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2020 12:54:10 PM
Rank: Veteran Joined: 1/25/2012 Posts: 1,624 Location: Langley		xyzee wrote: I have an uncle who would call every time with one story or the other. He would always ask for small amounts that in most cases you would not mind giving out but it became too much. One day asked for 600, I gave him a 1000 as a soft loan which he gladly took promising to pay back. On the day he had promised to pay I called him and of cause he give me another date, this continued untill he started ignoring my calls. And with that my problem was solved. This works miraculously. Applied it to a nagging friend, they have never called again to ask for money. If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them.
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XSK		#50 Posted : Sunday, July 12, 2020 8:03:39 PM
Rank: Veteran Joined: 12/8/2009 Posts: 975 Location: Nairobi		Mastermind wrote: xyzee wrote: I have an uncle who would call every time with one story or the other. He would always ask for small amounts that in most cases you would not mind giving out but it became too much. One day asked for 600, I gave him a 1000 as a soft loan which he gladly took promising to pay back. On the day he had promised to pay I called him and of cause he give me another date, this continued untill he started ignoring my calls. And with that my problem was solved. This works miraculously. Applied it to a nagging friend, they have never called again to ask for money. This is literary buying their silence You will know that you have arrived when money and time are not mutually exclusive "events" in you life!
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