@john wa kamau you are 35 and she is 21. Which means when she was born you were in secondary school. You expect her to have made as much money as you have and to see things from your point of view? You must be a big baby too immature even for her. Go back to your mama or get yourself a wambui.

@Mukiha & Thuks

I respect your contributions but if thats what it costs to be a 'REAL MAN'. Maybe I am not and dont intend to be one.

@ Intelligentsia - I thought the current law rightly takes into account the contribution of the spouse and awards them their proportionate contribution not an automatic 50%

This what I am not sure, how does this new constitution treat the above.

Thanks @Mwaf & @youcant

Now that that this katiba thing is over, let me give you a little more of my messed up life. It may save you from headaches.

I have always been a not very good looking fellow (my buddies called me Lotodo as I look like him) so I immersed myself into books earning a Phd from our our National Unis by the time I was 31.
I had an issue with women possibly till I was doing my Phd while teaching sevelal Masters classes and doing consultancy here & there. I charmed several of them to a point I had too many women around me.
The mother of my son was one of them, she is a knock out. Her problem, masomo mingi. Being a political scientist our Rship was a roller coster banging our heads to proove she was a liberated woman as she had learnt. This was the case of most of the other masters women.
When we called it quits I decided no more dotcoms for me. I looked for a form four leaver and got one. A polite virgin who became my wife after a smooth 1 year courtship. She wasn’t threatened that I had a kid as my ex was married – actually to my good buddy and former roommate and she seems happy

What I have learned in life is
- Allmost all women are the same under normal room temperature and pressure.
- Go for the plain looking chicks, wachana na yummy yummies there is a better chance that youll be her knight in shining amour.
- Life is always greener on the other side – My married buddies want to dump their 45yr old wives for a 23year old. I want to dump my 23 year old for a 45 year old(Wendz??). An oxymoron.
- One mans poison is another man's meat; and
- Last but not least the wallet talks.

Why did thread come up, but anyway about the topic there was a court order that will protect you from a good digging partner.