@intelligentsia,
About the taita women is very true. Using your example, you will definitely know. The same applies to a certain tribe in Uganda where for one to graduate into womanhood (with assistance from the "Aunties") , you must pass the "pencil test"! I will leave it at that. Just take it as the truth coz it is...
Geez, i am getting as bad as magigi!
Back to the current discussion....
It's not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are.