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Amores wrote:FRM2011 wrote:
The first thing that came to my mind when I watched this sick kid was "he must be growing under a single mother ".
Later, social media FBI unleashed the mother's complicated life with boyfriends on a revolving door.
This is sweepng with a broad broom. There are hundreds of single mothers out there doing an excellent job at raising their kids. Even those seemingly doing excellent jobs usually have some assistance from a man chini ya maji. Men are necessary in child raising, upende usipende
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Mike Ock wrote:Amores wrote:FRM2011 wrote:
The first thing that came to my mind when I watched this sick kid was "he must be growing under a single mother ".
Later, social media FBI unleashed the mother's complicated life with boyfriends on a revolving door.
This is sweepng with a broad broom. There are hundreds of single mothers out there doing an excellent job at raising their kids. Even those seemingly doing excellent jobs usually have some assistance from a man chini ya maji. Men are necessary in child raising, upende usipende Even in this case a man is present. Its very hard for a woman to spit that kind of language, that there was man talk - Ghetto man talk. So the thing is what kind of men are in this little boy's circle? They are failing him terribly. I also think sharing a child's verbiage on social media is stooping as low as this child if not worse, it does not help the child turning into adolescence stage. "There are only two emotions in the market, hope & fear. The problem is you hope when you should fear & fear when you should hope: - Jesse Livermore
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2008 Posts: 6,275 Location: Kenya
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Amores wrote:AlphDoti wrote:FRM2011 wrote:Amores wrote:FRM2011 wrote:
The first thing that came to my mind when I watched this sick kid was "he must be growing under a single mother ".
Later, social media FBI unleashed the mother's complicated life with boyfriends on a revolving door.
This is sweeping with a broad broom. There are hundreds of single mothers out there doing an excellent job at raising their kids. I really didn't intend to demean single mothers. God knows some are giving it their best. However, this particular boy seems convinced there will be no repercussions. Actually he did a third video with his cousin and the cursing is worse. As @alpha pointed out, there is data to back the claim about kids raised by single mom's going rogue. Here is my theory. Most women don't know that teenage boys and indeed all men have a traumatizing nightmare situation imagining their moms as sexual beings. It is extremely disgusting to a young teenager. Now our liberated single moms are living their lives to the fullest, changing boyfriends & sponsors as they wish. Their sons are disgusted and mentally disturbed by this. Throw in the teenage identity crisis , low self-esteem and lack of respect for the authority figure in their life (mom), and it will take a miracle for such a boy to turn out okay. That reminds me when my kids were in kindergarten. One day my daughter was telling us about school and she narrated that day they were asked about their parents, and one of her classmate said "my fathers are many"! I think she had single mother who used to change men and confusing the girl. It is serious matter. You do not know what this statement really meant, you can only interpret it the way to perceive things ... often times, kids refer to them as uncle not as daddy, so I would be curious about the story than to make a conclusion. Unfortunately, my guess is as good as mine. That was a in class 2, what "dads" (actually the word was dads) could a class 2 be talking about.
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AlphDoti wrote:Amores wrote:AlphDoti wrote:FRM2011 wrote:Amores wrote:FRM2011 wrote:
The first thing that came to my mind when I watched this sick kid was "he must be growing under a single mother ".
Later, social media FBI unleashed the mother's complicated life with boyfriends on a revolving door.
This is sweeping with a broad broom. There are hundreds of single mothers out there doing an excellent job at raising their kids. I really didn't intend to demean single mothers. God knows some are giving it their best. However, this particular boy seems convinced there will be no repercussions. Actually he did a third video with his cousin and the cursing is worse. As @alpha pointed out, there is data to back the claim about kids raised by single mom's going rogue. Here is my theory. Most women don't know that teenage boys and indeed all men have a traumatizing nightmare situation imagining their moms as sexual beings. It is extremely disgusting to a young teenager. Now our liberated single moms are living their lives to the fullest, changing boyfriends & sponsors as they wish. Their sons are disgusted and mentally disturbed by this. Throw in the teenage identity crisis , low self-esteem and lack of respect for the authority figure in their life (mom), and it will take a miracle for such a boy to turn out okay. That reminds me when my kids were in kindergarten. One day my daughter was telling us about school and she narrated that day they were asked about their parents, and one of her classmate said "my fathers are many"! I think she had single mother who used to change men and confusing the girl. It is serious matter. You do not know what this statement really meant, you can only interpret it the way to perceive things ... often times, kids refer to them as uncle not as daddy, so I would be curious about the story than to make a conclusion. Unfortunately, my guess is as good as mine. That was a in class 2, what "dads" (actually the word was dads) could a class 2 be talking about. there are several communities in kenya where the brothers of one's father are referred to as one's father as well and not uncles.
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hardwood wrote:AlphDoti wrote:AndyC wrote:FRM2011 wrote:
The first thing that came to my mind when I watched this sick kid was "he must be growing under a single mother".
Later, social media FBI unleashed the mother's complicated life with boyfriends on a revolving door.
Where is the father? You might be right @FRM2011. This boy is most likely being raised by unmarried mother. Or raised by a father who has (upto) 4 wives and thus he is unable to pay attention to all his offsprings' emotional development. word. this is a case of a speck in the eye while ignoring the log.
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Mike Ock wrote:Amores wrote:FRM2011 wrote:
The first thing that came to my mind when I watched this sick kid was "he must be growing under a single mother ".
Later, social media FBI unleashed the mother's complicated life with boyfriends on a revolving door.
This is sweepng with a broad broom. There are hundreds of single mothers out there doing an excellent job at raising their kids. Even those seemingly doing excellent jobs usually have some assistance from a man chini ya maji. Men are necessary in child raising, upende usipende I am not down playing the role of both parents in raising a child.I think society tends to overlook the role women have in raisins a children . In fact in this day and age, some men have made themselves irrelevant in bringing up children. Some are absentee dads, the woman does everything including teaching kids the right ways, feeding and educating them. I am happy
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mkenyan wrote:hardwood wrote:AlphDoti wrote:AndyC wrote:FRM2011 wrote:
The first thing that came to my mind when I watched this sick kid was "he must be growing under a single mother".
Later, social media FBI unleashed the mother's complicated life with boyfriends on a revolving door.
Where is the father? You might be right @FRM2011. This boy is most likely being raised by unmarried mother. Or raised by a father who has (upto) 4 wives and thus he is unable to pay attention to all his offsprings' emotional development. word. this is a case of a speck in the eye while ignoring the log. could he have been raised by a single dad?could it be he just has very busy parents who leave parenting to the housegirl? arent there single mums who raise good kids ( boys ) without male help? arent there absentee fathers?@FRM2011 be realistic You strike a woman,you strike a rock
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mkenyan wrote:hardwood wrote:AlphDoti wrote:AndyC wrote:FRM2011 wrote:
The first thing that came to my mind when I watched this sick kid was "he must be growing under a single mother".
Later, social media FBI unleashed the mother's complicated life with boyfriends on a revolving door.
Where is the father? You might be right @FRM2011. This boy is most likely being raised by unmarried mother. Or raised by a father who has (upto) 4 wives and thus he is unable to pay attention to all his offsprings' emotional development. word. this is a case of a speck in the eye while ignoring the log. A man's accusing finger will always find a woman
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2008 Posts: 6,275 Location: Kenya
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Maddie wrote:mkenyan wrote:hardwood wrote:AlphDoti wrote:AndyC wrote:FRM2011 wrote:
The first thing that came to my mind when I watched this sick kid was "he must be growing under a single mother".
Later, social media FBI unleashed the mother's complicated life with boyfriends on a revolving door.
Where is the father? You might be right @FRM2011. This boy is most likely being raised by unmarried mother. Or raised by a father who has (upto) 4 wives and thus he is unable to pay attention to all his offsprings' emotional development. word. this is a case of a speck in the eye while ignoring the log. could he have been raised by a single dad? Could it be he just has very busy parents who leave parenting to the housegirl? Arent there single mums who raise good kids ( boys ) without male help? arent there absentee fathers?@FRM2011 be realistic @Maddie, we have already answered that question. You did not read, or you missed it. Yes, there are single dads, there are busy parents, there are single mums who have done good job. In life, there always exceptions to the rule. So if there are single mums where they have raised great kids, and they have turned out perfectly normal, good for them, the statistics does not apply to them. But just because they are one of the rare exceptions out there, it does not disqualify the overwhelming majority of single mums out there producing kids and the statistics carried out by the U.S Department of Health and Census prove that 85% of children with behaviour disorders come from single mother households, which it says is 20 times national average! This shows that a child needs both FATHER and MOTHER living in the house! Because when you don't have both parents, the chances of screwing in life is high!
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