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AlphDoti wrote:sparkly wrote:AlphDoti wrote:FRM2011 wrote:AlphDoti wrote:FRM2011 wrote:The young husbands of wazua, @hardwood and his agemates. Read the following article by Jackson Biko. Specifically pay attention to the wife's "patience" and the point at which it snaps. What is the trigger ? If you can grasp that, you will have figured out women. https://bikozulu.co.ke/the-ten-percent/
Women tolerate you as long as you are good enough. You see bottom line, women want you to subsidize: you earn money while they get time for the babies, you pay for bills while they use their money for God knows what, you pay them money when relationship does not work. This why they hook up with you and tolerate you. When you cross below the threshold line, then bonkers! She explodes... why? Can you imagine !! She was willing to risk HIV and other STIs even suggested the guy gets a regular girlfriend. But the moment he became broke, it was over. That is the one crime that is unforgivable in a marriage. For the newbies in dealing with wives, we are not saying they never care about us husbands. I'm saying they do not care about us the way you think, they care about us in a way they care about the value we bring in their lives. They don't care about you as you, but as the value. Sorry guys. But do not take this in the wrong way, women are wired like that. This is not to make you guys give up, anyone who goes that direction means they are not good with women in the first place. We are only saying this to just recognize. Women care if you treat them well as opposed to oppressing them in the name of God. Let it go to record that you are the first one digressing into religion in this thread. Subject matter of Bikozulu's blog is two devout Christians  . Ama by religion you mean Islam  Life is short. Live passionately.
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