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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/8/2018 Posts: 2,212 Location: DC (Dustbowl County)
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AlphDoti wrote:MugundaMan wrote:hardwood wrote:You are still a bachelor even after all these bulotis huko dustbowl? Unbelievable. He he he he he believe it brathee. Tis a long story. Njonjo married at 50! Unbelievable... Especially reading some requirements, it indicates someone who has not lived with a wife. Kumbe we deal with young boys here!  Alphdoti, I know marrying 4 wives has been your biggest life accomplishment. I just need one, and my requirements are not burdensome 
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/8/2018 Posts: 2,212 Location: DC (Dustbowl County)
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AlphDoti wrote:I tend to agree with one or two of your points. I do not agree with others, especially the education level restriction coz there are smart ladies without degree etc. Key is to nurture... Love her and respect the way she is.
Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Treat women well. The woman was created from a rib. The most bent part of the rib is the top part. If you try to straighten it, you will break it. If you leave it, it remains bent. So treat women well."
A man looking for a wife looks at four things:
(i). Virtue (her religion or religiousness)
(ii). Noble (her family status)
(iii). Wealth (her wealth)
(iv). Beauty (her beauty)
So, do your background checks properly. Priority is to marry the pious woman, who is has obedience to creator. Otherwise you will be a loser in your other requirements. Education level is very important baba. Can't live with someone for the rest of my life with whom I cannot have a good conversation about a wide variety of topics kila Siku. A wife without a brain is no wife at all, brathee.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/8/2018 Posts: 2,212 Location: DC (Dustbowl County)
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kawi254 wrote:AlphDoti wrote:MugundaMan wrote:hardwood wrote:You are still a bachelor even after all these bulotis huko dustbowl? Unbelievable. He he he he he believe it brathee. Tis a long story. Njonjo married at 50! Unbelievable... Especially reading some requirements, it indicates someone who has not lived with a wife. Kumbe we deal with young boys here! What profiteth a man to gain the whole dustbowl and have zero fruit of the loins to inherit his dustbowl Life begins at 40 baba. Kids I can pop out boom twaff boom twaff in a matter of two years majaliwa. Finding the right woman is the tough part. Someone said stop looking around Nairobi area and go get a rural gal who looks at her shoes and draws circles in the soil while you talk to her because you won't find a good one hapa. Not sure how true that is.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/8/2018 Posts: 2,212 Location: DC (Dustbowl County)
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AlphDoti wrote:kawi254 wrote:hardwood wrote:gk wrote:AlphDoti wrote:MugundaMan wrote:hardwood wrote:You are still a bachelor even after all these bulotis huko dustbowl? Unbelievable. He he he he he believe it brathee. Tis a long story. Njonjo married at 50! Unbelievable... Especially reading some requirements, it indicates someone who has not lived with a wife. Kumbe we deal with young boys here! The easiest way to attract the lady of your life is to be "her" dream man . Like attracts like and you'll surely find each other. Remember you're (and all of us) only in the current relationship because your partner couldn't find a better person! He should join those weekend bus tours to dustbowl organised by plot selling companies. The tours have plenty of lady investors in love with the dustbowl and pulotis. Best way to meet his soulmate. Imagine the joy of those ladies if they met a single and searching dustbowl-crazed bachelor? It will be instant love. What profiteth a man to gain the whole dustbowl and have zero fruit of the loins to inherit his dustbowl Unfortunately, looking for wife when already "chummed" is tricky... you will get most of them attracted to you due to money, mostly. And the man will be feeling entitlement, and not being able to woo properly... He will just be flashing his money or car(s) around and expect the lady to see his worth... real hunting was during our time when we wrote real love letters... and winning a beauty on real romance! Then from there get married, and develop both of you together, step by step! He he he he. Mugundaman operates in a very ordinary, non-flashy ways in real life. She will not even know I have anything. The worst thing you can do is show a gold digger / slay queen that you have been blessed with a modest amount of material things. And a gold digger can be smelled from 10km away anyway. This is why I agree with you that without the spiritual-moral element all is lost, hence it being #1 on my list.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/3/2008 Posts: 4,058 Location: Gwitu
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MugundaMan wrote:AlphDoti wrote:kawi254 wrote:hardwood wrote:gk wrote:AlphDoti wrote:MugundaMan wrote:hardwood wrote:You are still a bachelor even after all these bulotis huko dustbowl? Unbelievable. He he he he he believe it brathee. Tis a long story. Njonjo married at 50! Unbelievable... Especially reading some requirements, it indicates someone who has not lived with a wife. Kumbe we deal with young boys here! The easiest way to attract the lady of your life is to be "her" dream man . Like attracts like and you'll surely find each other. Remember you're (and all of us) only in the current relationship because your partner couldn't find a better person! He should join those weekend bus tours to dustbowl organised by plot selling companies. The tours have plenty of lady investors in love with the dustbowl and pulotis. Best way to meet his soulmate. Imagine the joy of those ladies if they met a single and searching dustbowl-crazed bachelor? It will be instant love. What profiteth a man to gain the whole dustbowl and have zero fruit of the loins to inherit his dustbowl Unfortunately, looking for wife when already "chummed" is tricky... you will get most of them attracted to you due to money, mostly. And the man will be feeling entitlement, and not being able to woo properly... He will just be flashing his money or car(s) around and expect the lady to see his worth... real hunting was during our time when we wrote real love letters... and winning a beauty on real romance! Then from there get married, and develop both of you together, step by step! He he he he. Mugundaman operates in a very ordinary, non-flashy ways in real life. She will not even know I have anything. The worst thing you can do is show a gold digger / slay queen that you have been blessed with a modest amount of material things. And a gold digger can be smelled from 10km away anyway. This is why I agree with you that without the spiritual-moral element all is lost, hence it being #1 on my list. We have very troublesome sister. She is 40 years with 4 kids and our father is ready to offer any suitor an acre of land in Ngong Truth forever on the scaffold
Wrong forever on the throne
(James Russell Rowell)
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 7/3/2007 Posts: 1,635
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kawi254 wrote:AlphDoti wrote:MugundaMan wrote:hardwood wrote:You are still a bachelor even after all these bulotis huko dustbowl? Unbelievable. He he he he he believe it brathee. Tis a long story. Njonjo married at 50! Unbelievable... Especially reading some requirements, it indicates someone who has not lived with a wife. Kumbe we deal with young boys here! What profiteth a man to gain the whole dustbowl and have zero fruit of the loins to inherit his dustbowl Very funny. But why do you want to leave your wealth to your children? What will they do for themselves? Me I believe you give them a good education and let them hustle. Dust bowl mbulotis' achia mama watoto. She has a greater call on your wealth than your children and denying them the opportunity to grow through struggle, like you did, is no favor at all. "The opposite of a correct statement is a false statement. But the opposite of a profound truth may well be another profound truth." (Niels Bohr)
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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Quite sexist and probably inadequate and misguided criteria. The list may not be exhaustive. For example, why is it not important to find one whose sexual organs are compatible with yours ? Or why is it not important that at least she went to a good sex school?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/22/2008 Posts: 2,721
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If you want advise, seek it from those who know what they are talking about. unatwanga setani yenye iko ndani yake
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2008 Posts: 6,275 Location: Kenya
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tycho wrote:Quite sexist and probably inadequate and misguided criteria. The list may not be exhaustive. For example, why is it not important to find one whose sexual organs are compatible with yours ? Or why is it not important that at least she went to a good sex school? @mucho, it may be true men focus on sex... but as for a woman, even if she is frigid, she would not mind getting a man, she would hook up a man, even if it is just for shelter and protection (read mauntenance). She can lie there and she need not do anything at all! NOTE: I'm talking generally.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2008 Posts: 6,275 Location: Kenya
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Kusadikika wrote:If you want advise, seek it from those who know what they are talking about. unatwanga setani yenye iko ndani yake Good man Very responsible man. My advice to men: marry, and be faithful and responsible. And for those who happen to have so much testosterone boiling in their blood, this is a solution. We should advise men don't resort to sleeping around with mistresses or prostitutes or school girls. You will be lying to yourself. And you will be lying to your wife, cheating. But it does not mean everybody must have more women. Many don't want more women. As I said here before, Muslims have the permission, but worldly statistics say only 2% of Muslim men have more than one wife. The rest 98% Muslim men have only one wife. But this is a solution to those who may want, and also a solution to excess women.
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