This will make Kenyans think twice about the 4 phase marriages;
1. Come we stay - boy and girl live together from college days to early career days, or beyond;
2. Traditional - Boy/ Girl asked utatuletea mtu lini. Leading to family visits, wazee negotiations and dowry payment;
3. Civil process - affidavits and notification at AG's. This one a must if getting married under Statute;
4. Celebration before the Church Minister, Government Lawyer, Magistrate, Kadhi, Temple priest etc according to one's faith or lack thereof.
Btw each of the four phases constitutes a legally recognized marriage.
Life is short. Live passionately.