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Suicide on the increase in middle-class Kenya
2012
#1 Posted : Friday, October 12, 2018 9:13:50 PM
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I know depression is a disease, but I also think it is overstated as the only cause of suicide.

@Tycho, what's your take on depression? I'm curious.

BBI will solve it
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#2 Posted : Saturday, October 13, 2018 4:08:08 AM
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People should be free to decide if to exit life under their own terms.
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2012
#3 Posted : Saturday, October 13, 2018 8:02:26 AM
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Tokyo wrote:
People should be free to decide if to exit life under their own terms.


I don't know if I agree with that... valid all the same... But it's the most selfish act.

BBI will solve it
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tycho
#4 Posted : Saturday, October 13, 2018 10:31:27 AM
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2012 wrote:
I know depression is a disease, but I also think it is overstated as the only cause of suicide.

@Tycho, what's your take on depression? I'm curious.


If I look at my mind, then I can say I've been depressed mostly because I haven't known who my true mother is/was. And since I tried to project on my biological mother and the world, qualities of my true mother which were too high for them, I found myself in a captivity of sorts. Slavery, drudgery, the list of de-motivators is high.

There's another aspect; this time, about the entity I call 'me'. I set some standards for myself, but I'm too weak to be able to live the thought. Only training can help... Oh, imagine the dynamics of training. Which training is this? Where's the trainer? You don't find one as easily. 'I'm a failure' you say. Let's call it the institutionalization of Babylon, in my mind.

The deepest aspect of 'the depression' is my alienation from the unconscious. I believe that if an individual can be receptive to the unconscious, then he/she has everything he/she needs. Knowing who your true mother and father are is the sweetest thing ever. Your days are full of joy, life is eternal!

In the end depression is a good thing and should be encouraged. If one is depressed, then that person is ready for enlightenment. Just don't give up!

Suicide appears as a way out some times. But in a knowable universe you discover that death is an illusion and killing yourself is self deception. An individual's mind can't be trusted! You need to control your mind, but not the other way round.

tycho
#5 Posted : Saturday, October 13, 2018 10:37:41 AM
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Tokyo wrote:
People should be free to decide if to exit life under their own terms.


Most people don't even know who they are, how can they decide?

I can accept it when Socrates drinks the poison, but is it ethical for one who's yet to realize what she has or even where she is to make such a decision under self deception?

Socrates will drink hemlock because he knows it makes no difference, the non philosopher who doesn't know what he doesn't know, will drink it because he thinks it makes a difference when it doesn't. Or, even, without due diligence.

The standard for humanity is excellence @Tokyo, laws are for the promotion of it!
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#6 Posted : Saturday, October 13, 2018 11:45:17 AM
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2012 wrote:
Tokyo wrote:
People should be free to decide if to exit life under their own terms.


I don't know if I agree with that... valid all the same... But it's the most selfish act.

Why "selfish"?
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#7 Posted : Saturday, October 13, 2018 12:06:06 PM
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masukuma wrote:
2012 wrote:
Tokyo wrote:
People should be free to decide if to exit life under their own terms.


I don't know if I agree with that... valid all the same... But it's the most selfish act.

Why "selfish"?

I have lost three friends to suicide, the first was from a disagreement with the parents trying too much to control their only son.
The second was from drugs a first timer trying out unga and somehow it told him to hang himself.
The third was in the KDF trauma issues which affect many of our boys in the army.
Families are putting pressure on young men in this hard economy I know many who have had to deal with depression by cutting everyone out, alcohol seems to be the last thing they go to for the depression so it's really hard to help.
Please ask for help. you will be surprised at how people actually care
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#8 Posted : Saturday, October 13, 2018 12:41:29 PM
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masukuma wrote:
2012 wrote:
Tokyo wrote:
People should be free to decide if to exit life under their own terms.


I don't know if I agree with that... valid all the same... But it's the most selfish act.

Why "selfish"?

Coz of those you leave behind spouse, parents, kids, siblings, friends

People are left blaming themselves
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#9 Posted : Saturday, October 13, 2018 12:44:46 PM
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Lolest! wrote:
masukuma wrote:
2012 wrote:
Tokyo wrote:
People should be free to decide if to exit life under their own terms.


I don't know if I agree with that... valid all the same... But it's the most selfish act.

Why "selfish"?

Coz of those you leave behind spouse, parents, kids, siblings, friends

People are left blaming themselves


Just leave a nicely written suicide with a clear reason why. then the rest wont blame themselves.
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#10 Posted : Saturday, October 13, 2018 1:45:01 PM
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Lolest! wrote:
masukuma wrote:
2012 wrote:
Tokyo wrote:
People should be free to decide if to exit life under their own terms.


I don't know if I agree with that... valid all the same... But it's the most selfish act.

Why "selfish"?

Coz of those you leave behind spouse, parents, kids, siblings, friends

People are left blaming themselves


Exactly.
You live with guilt for the rest of your life asking you whether you could have done it different.
Was your approach wrong? Was there a way to stop it? Where were you when it happened? Why didn't you sense it?Why,why why is what you will take to your grave.
It's done.It's over.And you have to live with that forever.


"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.
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