Angelica _ann wrote:Swenani wrote:Motomoto wrote:Asking for a friend....
You have been married. Things don't work out and you separate. You had a good job but you lost it. You used to support your wife and children when times were good. You are not officially divorced. Your wife is doing well. You are jobless and a needy person. You have assets but you cant sell them becsuse your estrangrd wife has put caveats on all of them. As a man can you go to court and ask for maintenance until the divorce case is determined.This life🤔🤔🤔Any lawyers in the house?
What I know is that you an go to court ask for maintenance when the divorce case has not been finalized
Lakini ni ayubu sana kwa muanaume kufanya hivyo. As you invest, please don't disclose everything ...for the future
Ngai !!! @Angelica kwani you are from Gachie ?
@Motomoto. Mine is not professional advice but the above situation is not unique at all. Someone said the only reason our wives stay with us is not because we are handsome. It has nothing to do with love. Its purely a financial arrangement. You provide everything she needs, she pays back with unlimited landing and recognition as the head of the household. Not very different from the cash transactions at fish parlours. You drop the ball and you can't believe the monster you have been living with.
Solution.... Sadly Angelica is right. Women do not respect nice guys and gentlemen. Just imagine if the above predicament was facing a ruthless guy like Kabogo. Do you think Mrs Kabogo would dare put a caveat on any property ? Her entire family would be pleading with her to run as far as her feet can go. Its a face-off to see who will blink first. He needs to go rogue. A specific and unambiguous threat to her parents would force their family to hold an emergency crisis meeting. She needs to know when you push a man to the wall, something gotta give.