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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/9/2009 Posts: 6,592 Location: Nairobi
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Why are like all new marriages on the rocks? Some are just two months in and are already troubled. I'm beginning to think that maybe marriage is not for everyone.
BBI will solve it :)
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 11/9/2009 Posts: 2,003
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2012 wrote:Why are like all new marriages on the rocks? Some are just two months in and are already troubled. I'm beginning to think that maybe marriage is not for everyone. Show me the numbers.
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Rank: Chief Joined: 5/9/2007 Posts: 13,095
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2012 wrote:Why are like all new marriages on the rocks? Some are just two months in and are already troubled. I'm beginning to think that maybe marriage is not for everyone. ??  
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Rank: Member Joined: 1/15/2015 Posts: 681 Location: Kenya
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2012 wrote:Why are like all new marriages on the rocks? Some are just two months in and are already troubled. I'm beginning to think that maybe marriage is not for everyone. The hardest part in a marriage is the first 2 years. When mnajuana na your partner.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/7/2012 Posts: 11,908
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performance!!! In the business world, everyone is paid in two coins - cash and experience. Take the experience first; the cash will come later - H Geneen
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 7/5/2010 Posts: 2,061 Location: Nairobi
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Thitifini wrote:2012 wrote:Why are like all new marriages on the rocks? Some are just two months in and are already troubled. I'm beginning to think that maybe marriage is not for everyone. The hardest part in a marriage is the first 2 years. When mnajuana na your partner. I thought that would be 4th to 8th? First two years is honeymoon phase, shagging like rabbits....from 4th a kid or two are on the scene, responsibilities, stress, routine...
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/9/2009 Posts: 6,592 Location: Nairobi
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Thitifini wrote:2012 wrote:Why are like all new marriages on the rocks? Some are just two months in and are already troubled. I'm beginning to think that maybe marriage is not for everyone. The hardest part in a marriage is the first 2 years. When mnajuana na your partner. I think so too. Most people get in with preconceived expectations. Performance is an act not relationship. If it's performance based then it won't last.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 7/5/2010 Posts: 2,061 Location: Nairobi
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Angelica _ann wrote:performance!!! The way ladies discuss these manenos online....you would be forgiven for thinking they are complete beasts in bed, ready to devour and demolish men. Its very well expressed fantasies, reserved for the Brad Pitts carefully constructed in the mind. In real life, its periods that last forever, foul moods and endless headaches.  Women kanyagia sex,..and when another offers, inakuwa ni shida. They demand performance, won't give any. Ni kulala tu kama gunia kwa kitanda ...even administering the mic is a challenge to most..teeth everywhere..aiggh!!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/3/2008 Posts: 4,057 Location: Gwitu
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2012 wrote:Why are like all new marriages on the rocks? Some are just two months in and are already troubled. I'm beginning to think that maybe marriage is not for everyone. Marriage as an institution is a good idea,for those who like living in institutions!  Truth forever on the scaffold
Wrong forever on the throne
(James Russell Rowell)
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Rank: Member Joined: 7/27/2014 Posts: 560 Location: Eastlando
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quicksand wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:performance!!! The way ladies discuss these manenos online....you would be forgiven for thinking they are complete beasts in bed, ready to devour and demolish men. Its very well expressed fantasies, reserved for the Brad Pitts carefully constructed in the mind. In real life, its periods that last forever, foul moods and endless headaches. Women kanyagia sex,..and when another offers, inakuwa ni shida. They demand performance, won't give any. Ni kulala tu kama gunia kwa kitanda ...even administering the mic is a challenge to most..teeth everywhere..aiggh!! The Problem is that, in most relationships, it is one Person, who is initiating S$x. After sometime, it becomes boring and relationships suffer as a result
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Rank: Member Joined: 7/27/2014 Posts: 560 Location: Eastlando
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Relationships are not meant only for good times, that is what most People Forget. Today, it not just in Kenya that People have Mpngo wa kando, it is everywhere.One should never Forget, that they promised to love their better half for good and worse.Society suffers if Family is suffering
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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2012 wrote:Why are like all new marriages on the rocks? Some are just two months in and are already troubled. I'm beginning to think that maybe marriage is not for everyone. Poel 2012, this is a passing cloud. Vumilia tu things will be okay If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/9/2009 Posts: 6,592 Location: Nairobi
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Swenani wrote:2012 wrote:Why are like all new marriages on the rocks? Some are just two months in and are already troubled. I'm beginning to think that maybe marriage is not for everyone. Poel 2012, this is a passing cloud. Vumilia tu things will be okay Walala, mimi niko sawa, past the teething years. Now enjoying life. What I'm wondering is why millennial marriages don't even last 6 months, at least my age mates even do 8,10,20 years. How do you have irreconcilable differences after just 6 months? It means the marriage was a joke from the beginning ama? Even from our 'celebs' who are supposedly the mirror of our society.
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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2012 wrote:Swenani wrote:2012 wrote:Why are like all new marriages on the rocks? Some are just two months in and are already troubled. I'm beginning to think that maybe marriage is not for everyone. Poel 2012, this is a passing cloud. Vumilia tu things will be okay Walala, mimi niko sawa, past the teething years. Now enjoying life. What I'm wondering is why millennial marriages don't even last 6 months, at least my age mates even do 8,10,20 years. How do you have irreconcilable differences after just 6 months? It means the marriage was a joke from the beginning ama? Even from our 'celebs' who are supposedly the mirror of our society. Expectations management! Both the dating and lifestyles of millennials is a yuge lie If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Rank: Member Joined: 1/15/2015 Posts: 681 Location: Kenya
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quicksand wrote:Thitifini wrote:2012 wrote:Why are like all new marriages on the rocks? Some are just two months in and are already troubled. I'm beginning to think that maybe marriage is not for everyone. The hardest part in a marriage is the first 2 years. When mnajuana na your partner. I thought that would be 4th to 8th? First two years is honeymoon phase, shagging like rabbits....from 4th a kid or two are on the scene, responsibilities, stress, routine... The first two years most difficult. This is when the kifaranga hamas thinking you are rich and happy 24/7/365 and you sweat paco robanne at night. As you just get to jua beautiful ladies pass gas too and behave like your mother as soon as you close the door. The adjustments, maan!  After the two years you have started to develop marriage chemistry and can overlook these. At 6-8th year things pretty much work fine; the family routin8e is set, the fights and questions subsided, and some crazy shmunks even have side kicks......after 12th year......I have no clue....
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Rank: Member Joined: 3/19/2013 Posts: 344
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Y'all just have loose morals and no respect for your partners.
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Rank: Member Joined: 3/19/2013 Posts: 344
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Thitifini wrote:2012 wrote:Why are like all new marriages on the rocks? Some are just two months in and are already troubled. I'm beginning to think that maybe marriage is not for everyone. The hardest part in a marriage is the first 2 years. When mnajuana na your partner. But let me ask you first ... how are you marrying someone you don't know?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2008 Posts: 6,275 Location: Kenya
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Angelica _ann wrote:performance!!! You may be right. I've been making observations on this issue based on region... If you look at areas where drug abuse is common etc the men have been affected by phangi and miraa... science says that these drugs affect men's libido... so since women have become very bold, so those who want to be faithful, they pressure for divorce!
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 7/5/2010 Posts: 2,061 Location: Nairobi
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Thitifini wrote:quicksand wrote:Thitifini wrote:2012 wrote:Why are like all new marriages on the rocks? Some are just two months in and are already troubled. I'm beginning to think that maybe marriage is not for everyone. The hardest part in a marriage is the first 2 years. When mnajuana na your partner. I thought that would be 4th to 8th? First two years is honeymoon phase, shagging like rabbits....from 4th a kid or two are on the scene, responsibilities, stress, routine... The first two years most difficult. This is when the kifaranga hamas thinking you are rich and happy 24/7/365 and you sweat paco robanne at night. As you just get to jua beautiful ladies pass gas too and behave like your mother as soon as you close the door. The adjustments, maan! After the two years you have started to develop marriage chemistry and can overlook these. At 6-8th year things pretty much work fine; the family routin8e is set, the fights and questions subsided, and some crazy shmunks even have side kicks......after 12th year......I have no clue.... Aah,...that is where most people cross wires my fren,..you gotta live with the chic at least for a year..mpimane wazimu,...before committing for life. Hii ya kudate, kuoa and then kuinstall kwa nyumba fresh from church itakuwa na challenges! It is very important for both of you to juana intimately and be comfortable in these small small things like kunyamba, taking dumps and stinking the house, leaving things strewn all over, crazy relations and the hustles a man does na kadhalika. In IT we call it Integration Testing.
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Rank: Member Joined: 12/21/2009 Posts: 602
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2012 wrote:Why are like all new marriages on the rocks? Some are just two months in and are already troubled. I'm beginning to think that maybe marriage is not for everyone. At some level, this is good. You figure a marriage will not work and you bail out early before kids.
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