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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/11/2012 Posts: 5,222
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It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings?
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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Mukiri wrote:It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings? You buy them a bra If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 3/27/2009 Posts: 1,437
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Swenani wrote:Mukiri wrote:It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings? You buy them a bra Ngai.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/7/2007 Posts: 11,935 Location: Nairobi
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/11/2012 Posts: 5,222
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Chesos! 
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Rank: Elder Joined: 8/4/2008 Posts: 2,849 Location: Rupi
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Swenani wrote:Mukiri wrote:It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings? You buy them a bra  Utamvalisha? @Mukiri that is hard small. Lord, thank you!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/18/2008 Posts: 3,434 Location: Kerugoya
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Mukiri wrote:It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings? Ask him to step outside and punch the living daylights out of each other. Works every time.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2009 Posts: 26,328 Location: Masada
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Euge wrote:Swenani wrote:Mukiri wrote:It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings? You buy them a bra Utamvalisha? @Mukiri that is hard small. Very tough. Like belling a cat. Portfolio: Sold
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Rank: Chief Joined: 5/9/2007 Posts: 13,095
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/22/2008 Posts: 2,703
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Mukiri wrote:It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings? Inategemea. The only feelings you are supposed to mbembeleza are those of your spouse or girlfriend. All others just need your presence and silence. Kama ni Mama or sister you can hold hands or give hugs. Men pengine umpatie tissue ama umshike kwa bega. I am thinking of a case where the feelings are of something serious like death. If it is small time feelings like za kuachwa na dame or wife problems you just offer to buy beer.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/8/2013 Posts: 4,068 Location: At Large.
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Mukiri wrote:It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings? It depends won what the issue is. But am against this thing of men should not catch.This us why they end up commiting or suffering from burst veins. Give him a hearing even if you don't talk.Once he is done give your view on the matter and advise on way foward. If its a matter that requires him to cry,let him do so.Offer tissue and comfort and have a punch bag nearby. Love is beautiful and so are those who share it.With Love, Marriage is an amazing event in ones life time, the foundation of joy, happiness and success.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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Mukiri wrote:It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings? All people are always catching feelings, but society has structured certain ways of dealing with such experiences. But humans are now being encouraged to foster emotional intelligence and to participate in creating new realities. Generally, we must learn how to discern fear in all emotions. It's a challenge to self reflection and being.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/11/2012 Posts: 5,222
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Bigchick wrote:Mukiri wrote:It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings? It depends won what the issue is. But am against this thing of men should not catch.This us why they end up commiting or suffering from burst veins. Give him a hearing even if you don't talk.Once he is done give your view on the matter and advise on way foward. If its a matter that requires him to cry,let him do so.Offer tissue and comfort and have a punch bag nearby. Asi!? Madam, why?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/11/2012 Posts: 5,222
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Kusadikika wrote:Mukiri wrote:It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings? Inategemea. The only feelings you are supposed to mbembeleza are those of your spouse or girlfriend. All others just need your presence and silence. Kama ni Mama or sister you can hold hands or give hugs. Men pengine umpatie tissue ama umshike kwa bega. I am thinking of a case where the feelings are of something serious like death. If it is small time feelings like za kuachwa na dame or wife problems you just offer to buy beer. I agree with you. What if they were even smaller time feelings, like za ulisema ....... so I will behave ....?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/11/2012 Posts: 5,222
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Euge wrote:Swenani wrote:Mukiri wrote:It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings? You buy them a bra Utamvalisha? @Mukiri that is hard small. Hard small indeed! What do you do? Varied feelings from the very serious (death), the moderatly serious (separation) to the petty?
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Rank: Member Joined: 12/2/2009 Posts: 299 Location: kenya
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@Mukiri.what's your orientation. Roho safi
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/28/2015 Posts: 9,562 Location: Rodi Kopany, Homa Bay
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popat wrote:@Mukiri.what's your orientation. Roho safi Seems he could be half gay, half straight.
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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hardwood wrote:popat wrote:@Mukiri.what's your orientation. Roho safi Seems he could be half gay, half straight. Ai jameni!! If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/11/2012 Posts: 5,222
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hardwood wrote:popat wrote:@Mukiri.what's your orientation. Roho safi Seems he could be half gay, half straight. Eish! What happened here!? I'm having problems bembelezaring a man, who's biashara I want, and you guys are busy throwing me to the other side? Be nice, majameni 
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Rank: Member Joined: 1/4/2013 Posts: 255
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Mukiri wrote:hardwood wrote:popat wrote:@Mukiri.what's your orientation. Roho safi Seems he could be half gay, half straight. Eish! What happened here!? I'm having problems bembelezaring a man, who's biashara I want, and you guys are busy throwing me to the other side? Be nice, majameni Emotional Intelligence is very important in such matters. Emotions are a basic human trait and not reserved for a specific sex, gender or sexual orientation. Individuals with good EQ can better handle interactions where emotions are "dysfunctionally" expressed - whether in business or personal interactions.
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