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Mukiri
#1 Posted : Saturday, June 24, 2017 11:01:25 AM
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It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings?

Proverbs 19:21
Swenani
#2 Posted : Saturday, June 24, 2017 11:07:30 AM
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Mukiri wrote:
It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings?



You buy them a bra
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Iganamagana
#3 Posted : Saturday, June 24, 2017 11:17:40 AM
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Swenani wrote:
Mukiri wrote:
It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings?



You buy them a bra



Ngai.
Njung'e
#4 Posted : Saturday, June 24, 2017 12:06:20 PM
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Iganamagana wrote:
Swenani wrote:
Mukiri wrote:
It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings?



You buy them a bra



Ngai.


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Mukiri
#5 Posted : Saturday, June 24, 2017 1:17:26 PM
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Njung'e wrote:
Iganamagana wrote:
Swenani wrote:
Mukiri wrote:
It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings?



You buy them a bra



Ngai.


Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly ....haka swenani kana ujinga sana. what's this now?smile Pray

Chesos!Pray

Proverbs 19:21
Euge
#6 Posted : Saturday, June 24, 2017 8:07:15 PM
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Swenani wrote:
Mukiri wrote:
It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings?



You buy them a bra

Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly
Utamvalisha?

@Mukiri that is hard small.
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aemathenge
#7 Posted : Saturday, June 24, 2017 9:17:48 PM
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Mukiri wrote:
It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings?

Ask him to step outside and punch the living daylights out of each other.

Works every time.
Impunity
#8 Posted : Saturday, June 24, 2017 10:37:09 PM
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Euge wrote:
Swenani wrote:
Mukiri wrote:
It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings?



You buy them a bra

Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly
Utamvalisha?

@Mukiri that is hard small.


Very tough.
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#9 Posted : Saturday, June 24, 2017 10:40:12 PM
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Mukiri wrote:
Njung'e wrote:
Iganamagana wrote:
Swenani wrote:
Mukiri wrote:
It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings?



You buy them a bra



Ngai.


Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly ....haka swenani kana ujinga sana. what's this now?smile Pray

Chesos!Pray

Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly

Kusadikika
#10 Posted : Sunday, June 25, 2017 12:01:03 AM
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Mukiri wrote:
It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings?


Inategemea. The only feelings you are supposed to mbembeleza are those of your spouse or girlfriend. All others just need your presence and silence. Kama ni Mama or sister you can hold hands or give hugs. Men pengine umpatie tissue ama umshike kwa bega. I am thinking of a case where the feelings are of something serious like death. If it is small time feelings like za kuachwa na dame or wife problems you just offer to buy beer.
Bigchick
#11 Posted : Sunday, June 25, 2017 7:04:51 AM
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Mukiri wrote:
It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings?



It depends won what the issue is.

But am against this thing of men should not catch.This us why they end up commiting or suffering from burst veins.

Give him a hearing even if you don't talk.Once he is done give your view on the matter and advise on way foward. If its a matter that requires him to cry,let him do so.Offer tissue and comfort and have a punch bag nearby.
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#12 Posted : Sunday, June 25, 2017 6:30:22 PM
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Mukiri wrote:
It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings?


All people are always catching feelings, but society has structured certain ways of dealing with such experiences.

But humans are now being encouraged to foster emotional intelligence and to participate in creating new realities.

Generally, we must learn how to discern fear in all emotions. It's a challenge to self reflection and being.
Mukiri
#13 Posted : Sunday, June 25, 2017 11:56:35 PM
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Bigchick wrote:
Mukiri wrote:
It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings?



It depends won what the issue is.

But am against this thing of men should not catch.This us why they end up commiting or suffering from burst veins.

Give him a hearing even if you don't talk.Once he is done give your view on the matter and advise on way foward. If its a matter that requires him to cry,let him do so.Offer tissue and comfort and have a punch bag nearby.

Asi!? Madam, why?

Proverbs 19:21
Mukiri
#14 Posted : Monday, June 26, 2017 12:01:12 AM
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Kusadikika wrote:
Mukiri wrote:
It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings?


Inategemea. The only feelings you are supposed to mbembeleza are those of your spouse or girlfriend. All others just need your presence and silence. Kama ni Mama or sister you can hold hands or give hugs. Men pengine umpatie tissue ama umshike kwa bega. I am thinking of a case where the feelings are of something serious like death. If it is small time feelings like za kuachwa na dame or wife problems you just offer to buy beer.

I agree with you. What if they were even smaller time feelings, like za ulisema ....... so I will behave ....?

Proverbs 19:21
Mukiri
#15 Posted : Monday, June 26, 2017 12:09:24 AM
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Euge wrote:
Swenani wrote:
Mukiri wrote:
It is one thing if a female, be it family, friend, acquittance, becomes emotional. Huyo kubembeleza ni rahisi, given the motivation. What do you guys do when a fellow man catches feelings?



You buy them a bra

Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly
Utamvalisha?

@Mukiri that is hard small.

Hard small indeed! What do you do? Varied feelings from the very serious (death), the moderatly serious (separation) to the petty?

Proverbs 19:21
popat
#16 Posted : Monday, June 26, 2017 8:12:52 PM
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@Mukiri.what's your orientation. Roho safi
hardwood
#17 Posted : Monday, June 26, 2017 8:19:27 PM
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popat wrote:
@Mukiri.what's your orientation. Roho safi


Seems he could be half gay, half straight.
Swenani
#18 Posted : Tuesday, June 27, 2017 5:12:08 AM
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hardwood wrote:
popat wrote:
@Mukiri.what's your orientation. Roho safi


Seems he could be half gay, half straight.

Ai jameni!!
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Mukiri
#19 Posted : Tuesday, June 27, 2017 7:41:33 AM
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hardwood wrote:
popat wrote:
@Mukiri.what's your orientation. Roho safi


Seems he could be half gay, half straight.

Eish! What happened here!? I'm having problems bembelezaring a man, who's biashara I want, and you guys are busy throwing me to the other side? Be nice, majameniSad

Proverbs 19:21
its2013
#20 Posted : Tuesday, June 27, 2017 9:50:10 AM
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Mukiri wrote:
hardwood wrote:
popat wrote:
@Mukiri.what's your orientation. Roho safi


Seems he could be half gay, half straight.

Eish! What happened here!? I'm having problems bembelezaring a man, who's biashara I want, and you guys are busy throwing me to the other side? Be nice, majameniSad


Emotional Intelligence is very important in such matters. Emotions are a basic human trait and not reserved for a specific sex, gender or sexual orientation. Individuals with good EQ can better handle interactions where emotions are "dysfunctionally" expressed - whether in business or personal interactions.
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