@Wendz...u hv nailed it.

Physically attractive ladies can cause unnecessary distractions in life! There is a scripture that goes something like, ''like a gold ring in the nostrils of a swine, is a beautiful woman without wisdom.''

But the most important version of attraction comes from within acompanied by BRAINS.......talk of self-discipline, self-worth, self-esteem, self-respect, self-understanding....and all the virtues that ooz out of a human heart...And these virtues can be found in both the attractive & unattractive.

You want an attractive woman for a one night stand. You want a wise woman to raise your kids. If you can get a two-in-one, the better, but the latter is definitely the main priority.

@Amurabi... hehehehe... thanks for spotting potential where i had not seen it... i might start stalking these newly weds and hit some reality into their heads you know! I dont blame them. it comes with age and experience.

@atiriri, What's the catch?

Beauty makes my heart beat faster but I wouldn't want to fall for beauty without character.I've seen someone who married a dazzling beauty,the kind that even kids like and fall for.But from the word go she was a disaster.There was chaos daily n she was openly rude n abusive to inlaws.Now he's all stressed up coz she's made the home inhospitable n he cant leave her